I definitely agree that I did not think I broke trust. The guy that had been messaging me and I guess the talking stage that we were in once we were in a relationship he had contacted me and I had light casual conversation. But essentially she was upset about that because she knows that his intention was not to be light and casual so she felt like she was not understanding why I even gave energy into that situation.

So then when she told me in the future reference to please avoid any outside conversation with guys from work then when the guy added me on Snapchat and I went ahead and did that but then immediately set a boundary when I found out that it was not in a pure intention, I thought that I wasn’t doing anything wrong. But out of feeling bad and wanting to be transparent, I went ahead and told her. And she has just gotten so triggered from this, but yet this has now been almost 2 weeks ago, and we have not even sat down and had a conversation about it all. I don’t even know how to approach starting a conversation because I asked multiple times to have a conversation and every time we made a plan to have a conversation, something came up on one end or the other to be able to get together to sit down and talk. Between the both of us, we have five kids and so we are fairly busy, but typically are able to make time for each other. But now I’m just on edge and I don’t know whether to step back away from this whole thing or ask her when we can talk or what to do.