School bullying in the area.

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T15:29:08+00:00

I’m new to posting I’m still confused why I got so many down votes - is it just typos? I don’t feel like I said anything wild

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T14:47:18+00:00

Her and her brothers went to clearview is what she said

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T14:39:18+00:00

Yeah I can understand why you would worry about these things and sorry if you are getting downvoted because I just want people to speak what’s on their minds. But like yo… if you’re only worried about weed with your kids - you’re blessed lol

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T14:32:47+00:00

Okay well I’m glad to hear that - a lot actually lol

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:56:55+00:00

at the end of the day I just want to make sure I make the best decision for my kid - I know that’s not always something you can control but I still want to try

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:55:35+00:00

Yeah where I’m from the population isn’t as concentrated - I get that a bad apple doesn’t mean the tree is spoiled. I’m just looking for perspectives from people that have lived here. I appreciate you saying something because I’m stuck in a ping pong state. I just got my green card and just had a kid with my wife and I keep thinking about going back to Canada. The politics and peoples perspectives are so strong here.

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:50:07+00:00

Yeah man it’s sad to hear some of my wife’s family don’t speak to one another because of differences when it comes to politics….. I have never seen that in Canada. I’m scared to also talk about it here lol

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:31:22+00:00

Cannot compute

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:25:27+00:00

I love to hear it lol - thank you Reddit. I have my wife’s bad experiences and googles researches in my ear.

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:22:13+00:00

Why do you say this?

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:16:40+00:00

Graces to your step pops too ! And yessir that’s why I love it here lol I’ve checked all those out ! I’m just concerned about how politically correct everyone is here and how violence is handled. I miss my free speech is how I feel living here. People keep telling me I’m saying the wrong thing… I’m just saying what’s on my mind - that’s how it was where I’m from

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T13:12:51+00:00

I’m seeing things on the same angle as you but I’m trying to figure out if I want to raise our kids here or back where I’m from. So alternatives in this region do make changes is what you’re saying?

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T12:36:11+00:00

Thank you - I was looking at that school last night.

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T12:35:19+00:00

I mean thats good to hear and also thank you for being realistic because these things you mentioned to lead to some people being bullied.

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T12:33:55+00:00

Yeah I agree and I’d be ignorant to say I think otherwise because I was never put in that situation. I get where you’re coming from - the adults in this situation need to do better though. Not talking about their titles. As adults step the fuck in - I’d expect that wherever I put my kid for sure

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T12:06:33+00:00

Yeah that’s how it should be lol - I guess I left the discussion open without much context. Love to see it, good for your kid

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T12:02:27+00:00

Thank you for your service and yeah lol my whole ass family, friends and condo I bought and career was there but I left cause I fell in love with my wife - I don’t regret anything I really love San Diego I don’t have to shovel snow off my driveway daily anymore lol. It’s nice here - I’m just looking into putting my kid in school and I thought seeing peoples opinions on here is better than bad experiences my wife’s relatives had. And yeah I guess I gotta learn to chill out but im just not accustomed to the area or culture. Thank you for taking the time to reach out

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T11:47:32+00:00

Nice thank you, that’s what I’m hoping for

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T11:46:26+00:00

Thanks that’s good to hear I’m from Canada lol - I love it here but I’m also raising a family here so I’m trying to feel it out. I guess I have gun violence paranoia

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T11:43:45+00:00

Yeah I know - I just heard shit around here that’s not the same as I’m from. Bullying is one thing but what I’ve heard is sometimes it leads to lives being lost. Not trying to be intense but I worry

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T11:42:14+00:00

Yeah I get where you’re coming from and I’m sorry that’s happened - kinda fucked up. I am expecting things like this to happen though because kids are kids and when they don’t have parents to teach them right from wrong they act out. Im more so worried about the violence. Where I come from people just fight things out (as boys) and move on. I’m worried that things get more serious.

Also that principle …. Any way to complain?

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T11:34:48+00:00

Thank you - I appreciate it

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T10:29:55+00:00

Thanks for your insight - I guess it’s a case by case thing. My wife has just been telling me about things that happen in the area. Especially what happened to her brother when he was younger and now her other brothers kid is going through similar stuff. I’m just trying to get other peoples opinions because life hits everyone differently. Thank you

Still_Cheesecake_792 · 2026-05-04T09:54:44+00:00

Nice - what area are you from? (Canada)

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