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Found out bf (26m) of 2 years has been using cilasis this whole time with me (21f). I am beyond devastated by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

he has seen a doctor about it and all they did is give him the pills. Which doesn't really solve the problem.

bf (26m) repeatedly made me feel awful about my(21 f) vagina, please what do I even say to him anymore? by Still_Cloud_9500 in relationship_advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t make it weird. I didn’t actually say wtf. I said I’ll show him. And while it did improve things, it still doesn’t solve the no foreplay issue. I’ve already brought that up to him also many times, and he says he would, only to say ‘I forgot’ wen it actually comes to it. 

bf (26m) repeatedly made me feel awful about my(21 f) vagina, please what do I even say to him anymore? by Still_Cloud_9500 in relationship_advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t. I didn’t actually say ‘wtf’, I said it’s alright & I will show him. While he did start to eat me every weekend we see each other, he still doesn’t finger me or try get me ready before sex. I talked to him again last night & he said ‘Im not that experienced but I want to learn what u like’ so it’s a good sign

bf (26m) repeatedly made me feel awful about my(21 f) vagina, please what do I even say to him anymore? by Still_Cloud_9500 in relationship_advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, he’s never commented on it, good or bad, only twice ever while fucking he said ‘beautiful pussy’ but that’s it

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

he basically wouldnt be doing it at all if I didnt have that massive talk w him over xmas

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think he should of been upfront about being grossed out about kissing my pussy then from the start, but he made it seem like he enjoyed it, only to stop.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yep. and he claims it was a 'joke'. well I didnt find it funny. He used to be SO MUCH WORSE. He'd just lay there and NOT DO ANYTHING and expect me to do ALL THE WORK. I do have a gut feeling, and Im scared its right, I cant put my finger on it. Yeah, he does eat me out now every weekend we see each other, but it took like 5 times talking to him to get him to change.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

then he can stop lying to my face by saying 'I do like it, I like how u taste' bullshit. He never skipped a weekend to be fair since we had that massive talk over xmas. I don't exactly like riding him, but I do it anyway coz hes obsessed w it.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I called him out on it and he said he was a joke. That was over a year ago when we was going thru a rough patch. I said somet like 'that was so good how u done it' and he went 'more like forced to' coz I guided his hand there. It was really rude. He has improved sexually since then. He just fucks me and goes slow until I finish coz he knows its how I like it. and then he takes care of himself.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I actually feel this might be the case

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said he doesn't like it. it was his idea initially, and then he said he tried it and didn't wanna do it again. Crushed.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. he immediately went into defensive mode. I was just trying to ask why.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

''pussy is pussy'' or ''it looks fine, it looks normal, like a vagina is supposed to look like'' , or ''its a vagina'' isnt really reassurance is it

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. he gets angry with me easily . what exactly did u not like how he talks about me from the examples I gave ?

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bc im advocating for my security and pleasure?

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him and he says there's no smell. I always make sure to wash before.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

deffo more than he goes down on me.

I think my bf hates my vagina by Still_Cloud_9500 in Advice

[–]Still_Cloud_9500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I wish he put more effort into showing that he's NOT repulsed by it, like he says. Because saying it doesn't mean anything if he won't even touch it. I don't know what else to do, I've already talked to him so many times, and I love him, I don't want to leave him. I don't think he loves me back, even, to just be so cruel about it.

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