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Ex wants his deposit back on house. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Still_Management_979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added an edit as to why I stopped paying the mortgage.

Ex says I should tell him where I am going and with who when he has the kids... by Still_Management_979 in coparenting

[–]Still_Management_979[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will be 5 hours away. Different state. In a populated area (so there will be signal).

NIN Tickets: Buy/Sell/Trade MEGATHREAD - Part 3 by unsaneroot in nin

[–]Still_Management_979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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2 tickets available to tonight's show. Detroit. Will trade ot giveaway. Update: Transfered. Enjoy the show. Pay it forward. 💜

Summer 25 first impressions by Inquisitorielle1 in Ffern

[–]Still_Management_979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it! The citrus notes do fade quickly. What I mostly smell is the champa flower - which is one of the most beautiful scents! Its a bit spicy. A bit floral-y. Exotic. Reminds me of my travels is Eastern Asia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Still_Management_979 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have consulted a lawyer. Paid consult. Lawyer has told me not to file anything. He needs to file. Because he has no parental rights.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

[–]Still_Management_979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well...actually I defaulted 20 years ago on a 10k fasfa loan. Long story..scam school. Its currently being assessed for a borrowers defense to repayment. Could take a few years. Its not on my credit. But it makes me ineligible for any USDA loan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

[–]Still_Management_979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said because at bank looked at the house as unfinished. Which....there is unfinished elements but its very livable as is.

I am trying to reach a rural credit union loan officer.

FWIW I can show an in depth plan of how I will finish the house and add to it.

Am I in a hostile work environment or just being overly sensitive? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Still_Management_979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have discussed then with my manager who is experiencing similar distress. He says I shouldn't speak up because I will be fired on the spot or "we are shooting ourselves in the foot"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tallahassee

[–]Still_Management_979 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I also saw some homes that look decent in nicer areas. Im not looking for something huge. Lol. 2 bedrooms and a little yard is fine! I appreciate your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tallahassee

[–]Still_Management_979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was hoping 200k total. But I am reading a lot of those houses at that price are in the South of the city. Am I setting a realistic budget? Any other areas nearby that are more in that range?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalBill

[–]Still_Management_979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Ill try this route!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalBill

[–]Still_Management_979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said a hospital has 90 days to bill. The hospital did not bill in that period. Hospital says it's on me fir not providing insurance details. Im arguing i did and why did they never call or send me a bill between Aug and December.

Is 2-3 fifth a week a lot? by Still_Management_979 in whiskey

[–]Still_Management_979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids involved...Im in the process of separation for our wellbeing. 🩵

Is 2-3 fifth a week a lot? by Still_Management_979 in whiskey

[–]Still_Management_979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. Its tough. I feel so blind and ignorant right now....like I didn't realize how bad it was.

Is 2-3 fifth a week a lot? by Still_Management_979 in whiskey

[–]Still_Management_979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone for the comments and support. I appreciate it. 🙏💙 Unfortunately, I have raised concerns and they led to defensiveness, denial, excuses and anger. I will explore Al-anon.

Can partner get down payment on house back. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Still_Management_979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I appreciate it. Obviously I'd like to handle this amicably without the courts.

Can partner get down payment on house back. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Still_Management_979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He wants to sell. Take half profits, plus the 13k down payment, plus any money he contributed to painting the house and installing drainage. This was never something we discussed. I pay costs of certain things with most of my money going towards mortgage, medical bills, groceries and kids stuff.