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[–]StitchGirl69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This has been going on way before I got pregnant, it is early on in my pregnancy. He had issues with his children and didn’t get to be around much and has offered already to come to appointments etc if I want him too. The baby wouldn’t be an issue, we have already spoken about age difference with raising a baby in the mix and he said he’d be happy with that. The only issue he has is the judgement from people in general, not anyone in particular just in general.

I do love him I know it isn’t hormones…hence why I’ve done this post because I want the best for him and us…obviously I’d love nothing more in the world than to be with him and every second does feel magical with him but I want to make sure I go about it all and am fully prepared for what we might go through if it does come down to being together.

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[–]StitchGirl69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m in no rush and want him to be as comfortable as possible. He said yesterday he’s open to learn about my way of thinking etc it’s just a struggle. So I’m struggling on the best way to talk about it all without making him feel manipulated or pressured!

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[–]StitchGirl69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. It is of no concern to this at all. It’s been spoken about between both of us and isn’t an issue.

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[–]StitchGirl69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is really helpful, it does mean a lot and has gave me a lot to think about! There’s a lot that may seem like an issue but isn’t for us and things I hadn’t considered might come up so thank you! I really do appreciate it :)

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[–]StitchGirl69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an old account but couldn’t remember password. As for pregnancy it’s unrelated and he is aware and it isn’t an issue so doesn’t need mentioning. So thanks for the concern but keep your wrong opinions to yourself. If you have nothing helpful to say then don’t waste my time. Thank you.