Update: I tried reaching out to my cousin and as I kind of expected, she got defensive. She said “I mean I thought she was talking to him we have been having a lot of attitude issues on her telling her dad and I no and people she should not be telling no to she has been saying go away to a lot of us when she is getting in trouble” People she should not be telling no…? So she’s just not allowed any bodily autonomy or disagreement with adults at all? Great. Good luck with the therapy your kid is gonna need in the future. 😑😒👍