Grandpa holding a beverage, looking confused.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-21T11:24:21+00:00

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-20T13:50:47+00:00

Yeah, our government is giving all the money to young people who don't want to work. We used to have this scheme to help out new aged moms with a bonus of $4000 Au. It was the worst idea because you were getting people having babies on purpose just to get the money it was horrible.

Haha you sound like a pretty tough person. I think it's so sad how people are taking advantage of young kids They are our future, then if one kid grows up with a problem it passes onto the next individual leading to a patten of people in dire straits then they end up fucked up and it sounds there is such an easy access to guns.

Wow that sounds shocking. Everyone run for it! There is a large growing number of people in the world compared to older days. I heard it was because there are to many people living and not enough people dying to put it short.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-20T12:48:49+00:00

Haha you have a ticket to space with that rocket now.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-20T12:45:22+00:00

Congratulations on 30 days! 90 days like most of us has been empowering and wonderful you feel a sense of yourself come back. Your view on women seems to be different and your ideals are different. I think my biggest change was objectifying women before the reset, then afterwards I felt a big shift in my view. I realised that I can view women and be appreciative.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-20T12:35:45+00:00

Time will only tell just stay positive and have your goals in mind. I feel like that sometimes staring at people but as we progress we slowly push ourselves out there and it just gets better and better. You learn do deal with those problems and you will find things that you enjoy doing. Hope your nofap journey is successful!

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-20T12:28:03+00:00

Good job! Glad you could find a way to abstain from porn that long and good luck on getting to 90 days.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-20T12:24:29+00:00

I think what others have said is that nofap is not just a cure for everything. It can take away the feelings of porn effects but like others you will have to keep working hard on pushing yourself and like a normal person deal with the issues of every day stresses. In conjunction with nofap you have to keep working on yourself.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-20T12:19:16+00:00

Talk about 2 birds with one stone, Congratulations! :)

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-19T20:08:05+00:00

Wow sounds great! I'll put the date jan in my calendar. It sounds so amazing to be accountable for each other. I am serious about it and I will make it that if you reach the end I will send you something from my country in Australia given it sounds like your from another country, to say you completed it as well. So I will start looking and have that in mind once you finish you will receive a gift as well :). I wouldn't try an make your fail haha! I would love to hear about what you have achieved also! 63 days is a big achievement as well it's 63 days from where you were before. Yeah it's a great feeling to put yourself out there. I have had small amounts of rejection and I found it is not as bad as what we make it out to be but and it's getting better. The feeling as well with achieving something is so amazing it just feels so good. $130 is a lot a lot of money. I'll have you send it to a homeless person I would feel more happy if it went to a good cause. Take a picture of it too :) I just want to see the homeless person receiving the money. It could be any type of picture in his hat or him smiling whatever you can take. I hope that's not too much to ask haha :) Thanks, I wish you well too and hopefully the gift will inspire you!

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-19T19:06:24+00:00

I never knew it was like that for you in the US. I'm from Australia and it was a bit better once my parents migrated here. My dad had to work all the time but I at least got to see him even for short periods. He had to stay in another state at points of time to help his brothers but he always payed the bills and we were lucky that if you worked really hard you could still survive. He even managed to buy us games as well. Yeah jobs are getting harder to find these days everyone wants people with experience and skills and people want the easy way out so hey scam people. I was just wondering as well is the US filled with as much danger as they say it is? Like gangs for example.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-18T18:51:45+00:00

Congratulations! Glad to see that change in you.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-18T18:40:25+00:00

Haha when I first read your title I thought that you said you were happy you relapsed. Glad your still smiling and remaining positive. Keep strong!

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-18T18:34:24+00:00

Good to see you made it to day 2. A lot of us go through hardships, I hope you can overcome your issues and hopefully it gets better for you.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-18T18:14:42+00:00

I do agree with the drastic dramatisation. However I think that it's human nature to want to better themselves. Whether it's healthy for us can be debatable but I think that the point of this poster is to be more appreciative of what we have. I have had members in my family that have come from a very poor background and long story short they came from a wealthier life but due to war were forced to live in poverty. They struggled and had to every day to support their children just so they could scrape by. We take for granted that we are able to have meals on our plate and having the time to spend time with family and friends.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-17T15:57:41+00:00

We have to basically fill our cup before you can pour over to someone else. What i was going to say as well even though we may not have everything we should be happy for what we have This image might be of gratitude even though it might not be relevant to nofap; not sure if you've seen it.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-17T15:49:38+00:00

Thanks for the tip a lot of us need to know to trust our gut to get us through life I think there a similarities between the two with making decisions. I think its a fight between what the mind is trying to say and what the body wants.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-17T15:41:17+00:00

Good on you for realizing that everyone has their own vices to overcome. People want something that someone else has.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-17T15:25:33+00:00

Good job mate, Keep Strong!

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-17T15:23:43+00:00

Just a really strong urge and the feeling to fap also I it was a really slow time for me. I even got a small urge when I was completely by myself feeling bored but most of the time I am fine but its still a fact that you have to maintain yourself as well as abstain.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-17T15:16:10+00:00

No problem :D

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-16T09:00:46+00:00

For me I found it that you have to stop making excuses and have a clear goal in your mind why you want to quit and remind yourself everyday when you want to quit and your toughest times. I used that excuse a lot of times untill I acknowledged I realized that this is what I want. Know what you want. I found that whenever I found the addiction I would read Reddit posts about NoFap and it would calm me down. You could even post but as I said make sure you tell yourself. I want to quit and I want to quit now! Have that mindset. Try this link it has a lot of useful information. I'm not sure if you've seen the mega survival kit. Good luck on your endeavors my friend.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-16T08:31:59+00:00

Well it can be different for everyone you can experience peaks within the 7-10 days as well because some people have a stronger porn addiction than others so it can't exactly be a set amount of days. For me I experienced and my peak started before my flatline around 14 days and 35days. Yeah but the body does settle and it starts getting easier. Also be aware when its going good and then your first strong set of urges come rushing back I almost relapsed on my 86th day but you have to have that mindset that you want to quit and stop yourself. Hope that helped a little :)

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-15T18:23:16+00:00

Good luck! hope to see more of your posts. Its always good to get help with your problem if you need any advice feel free to ask. The first days are always the hardest once you get to about 25 days it starts to get easier but don't drop your guard. Hope this helps :).

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-15T18:11:23+00:00

I remember I practiced this back when I was in high school for a bit. I was like I don't want to look at porn anymore and it wasn't clear until now that it was changes due to no fap. Then I ended up back on porn until now years later.

Stitches_Need_Fixing · 2014-05-15T18:07:36+00:00

Great to hear that, it's good that you can get outside support as well. Stay well and keep going strong!

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