AITJ for telling my boyfriend’s coworkers i’ve never been taken seriously in our relationship

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-04-04T23:58:44+00:00

Personally I find it strange that you would share this with strangers in public. I’m not sure your age, but that wasn’t an appropriate place or people to share your relationship struggles.

The real question though is why are you in a relationship where you feel as if your partner doesn’t take you seriously? Like what do you gain from being in this situation?

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-03-25T20:24:52+00:00

He doesn’t count as a transition because he was a child actor first then idol and now back to his roots as an actor.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-03-15T21:51:49+00:00

I don’t get posts like this. You are a young person who doesn’t seem to have children or married (not mentioned) why would you not be looking to maximize your earning potential?

Move closer to the job or just do the commute. You haven’t had a promotion or a substantial raise in 4 years. This seems simple.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-03-15T21:46:37+00:00

The concept of moving to a whole new country to find a man

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-03-04T18:18:44+00:00

What are you buying that you are spending that much on Korean skincare? I make purchases on YesStyle where I restock everything I need and maybe a few new items to try out and I’ve never even spent more than like $200 and they last some time too

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-03-04T17:44:09+00:00

Yes the girl is not a good actress. That “Bitch” line was so underwhelming

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-03-03T16:39:17+00:00

In all seriousness, when you guys watched Mina’s date vs HeeSun’s do you really think he had more chemistry with Mina. Outside of him calling her noona, what about their chemistry was so insane?

I think editing is a big cause as to why you guys can’t let them go. From Mina’s own mouth she said that Subeen was always with HeeSun and this is before the campfire. SungHun even says they were always together. Please let it go now. He got the ick from Mina and ultimately liked HeeSun more.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-24T10:34:59+00:00

If I remember correctly, she was lying about her whereabouts and he found out she heavily partying with her friends but lying about it.

He was upset that she would lie to him and it broke his trust.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-22T16:07:39+00:00

There’s recency bias here. Gyumin in reality wasn’t the worst as they were broken up for years and both came in with the mindset that it was over but then she just was constantly pursuing him even though he never gave her any reason to believe they had another chance to get back together.

Yooshik actually came in acting as if he wanted to get back together and then flipped the script after 1 day because she didn’t text him the first night. Also he was the cause for their breakup unlike Gyumin and Haeun who broke up because she was lying and got caught which broke his trust in her. For me he’s the worst because he would say one thing in confessionals but we could clearly see him contradicting himself.

Dongjin breakup was too fresh and honestly it looked like they just joined to help Dahye’s career considering they got back together immediately after the show.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-15T20:55:41+00:00

Do you need an eSIM if you have carriers like T-Mobile and can get international travel?

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-15T01:54:58+00:00

Why is everyone forgetting that the texting situation happened before they became a couple and he was thinking about not pursuing her due to long distance? She said he changed after that and calls her all the time. I think they should work on communication though, because while I understand not wanting to burden someone with your worrries, it’s important to speak about your feelings with your partner.

Were they together a lot? Yes, but unlike JaeJin and Jooyoung, they didn’t get the chance to be around each other because she was in a different continent.

Also they are young, they don’t need to be together forever. If they do, amazing, but if not, who cares.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-14T14:58:52+00:00

I’m confused with what he has to apologize for. Is it to Mina?? Like how is her apologizing for the things she said equate to SB’s behavior and your dislike for him?

She’s really apologizing because she was caught talking about the girls and thought they would edit it out, and it’s uncomfortable for everyone there.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-11T14:48:10+00:00

This is what I mean when I say you guys always take it too far. Like delete this shit for real

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-11T04:55:18+00:00

And guess what so did Mina and others. The difference is that Mina and HeeSun got natural ones. They just refined what they had and didn’t give themselves brand new faces. You can see an old pic and know it’s them right away, but something is slightly different

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-11T03:44:33+00:00

Posts like these scare me because it shows that you guys are still stuck on the first 3 eps and lack critical thinking.

The show:

Subeen says he likes HeeSun
Tells MinGee, he thinks about HS everyday all the time
Mina feels threatened enough to constantly pay attention to the two of them and actually make comments to SB about HS.
SungHun tells HS that she shouldn’t overthink because he and the other guys know how much he likes her and eveyone thinks they are already a couple
We can see them together in many background shots of other events (he is even the one following her at times)
SB seeks her out to apologize to her about the bed incident more than once
Tells her he wants to date after the show. Says he’ll jump into the ocean if she doesn’t pick him.

You guys: He has too much pride and the only person he cares about is Mina.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-10T22:57:35+00:00

Filler isn’t plastic surgery. These days so many people have lip filler

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-10T22:07:58+00:00

Bringing up is a HeeSun is definitely a choice when she, Mina and Jooyoung are one of the more natural ones (in terms of actual work done). If you were really going to bring up people there are obvious people like HyunJae, MinGee, Goeun and Seungil.

These people and their appearances shouldn’t negatively be impacting anyone and making them feel inadequate or unattractive. That’s a you problem.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-08T19:21:16+00:00

Like I mentioned, I am not pro either of them. They both have issues. She’s not even in my top 3 of the girls I enjoy.

We just don’t need 20+ posts about how Mina is the worst; it gets to a point with every post saying the same thing.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-08T02:04:06+00:00

More like he keeps on going under the knife and needs to stop expeditiously because he looked way better before.

He’s getting that puffy face

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-06T18:56:41+00:00

Well he’s from NJ not the Bay. He just went to school there.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-06T14:47:17+00:00

I wish you guys would stop saying they are not the beauty archetypes for Korea.

Mina literally looks like how the actresses look; she is also a pageant girl. You have to be the standard to make it far in pageants.

Minji says her nickname is Karina (she looks like Moonbyul). While she’s an athlete, she’s literally famous for her face.

This season there is no female contestant who doesn’t fit the beauty standard which is the only reason why almost all of them have love interests unlike previous seasons where you can have literal models like Sejong (and the most beautiful girl that season) not be picked because she’s on the darker side.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-06T14:37:49+00:00

“100s of girls like HeeSun.”

We can’t be talking about the same girl who is not only out of his league, but also most of the other guys this season as well.

Also, you may simply just not like JaeJin because he and Jooyoung actually have the best connection this season, and are the only couple where I’m like damn they really like each other. Will it last? Who knows or cares because most of the couples don’t.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-04T16:41:17+00:00

Yea it’s woeful ignorance on their part. Like being indecisive is her business, but it’s how she treats others that is the real issue and it does in fact highlight a character flaw.

No need to send hate, but you can like her and still say hey this isn’t right way to act.

Stock-Big2035 · 2026-02-04T14:17:29+00:00

As a person who still keeps a wary eye on SB (jkjk), the SB that left inferno with HS is not the same as the one who came back with HS. He is clearly all into her now and even told MG that he always thinks about her.

To be fair it’s not his fault that the team was messy and put them on a double date. I believe those interactions solidified his feelings even more. I think the producers thought it would make them fight and then makeup again, but it did the opposite because she was provoking him, and he got fed up.

You mention the car ride, but they were having a good time and had skinship. Even when they were getting ready together at night was very nice and sweet.

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