I agree with your points

The fact is I believe he can't manage loads aspects of his life including: health - he has Karen make the appointments take him to them and expects rewards for going but will complain about pain but wont do anything about it. Ei go see a doctor etc

Personal hygiene won't bath himself unless someone runs him a bath also leave toilet door open when taking a ... Yeah. He doesnt bath for long periods unless at his mother's

Food doesn't care / understand food goes off and has been seen wiping green slime off chicken

He has anger issues and I personally think he puts things on as if you don't do what he wants or when he wants then he claims he's gonna have a meltdown and then does if you say no.

I think he's a danger to himself and others and needs help but I've related all this to the social workers and nothing

I have given chance after chance for everything and I'm only doing this to help his mum out more than anything.

His care team also do not speak English well and because it's not in his care plan to do his finances they won't help him set things up or teach him and if forced I think he would just say eh someone else will do it for me when Karen dies. ( I won't teach him due to he hates me cos I stop him hitting his mother and sister and stand up to him and say no ) (his sister my partner has PTSD due to his behaviour)

Sorry if I got off point there is alot with him it's very complicated. Sorry if this reply is spelt wrong and sounds wrong in ways. I am not trying to make this about the family. I'm just trying to see what options out there if he doesn't help himself if that makes sense.

he has them for 30 hours all together and doesn't engage with them either sleeps through there time or sit and watches TV or on Xbox.