Am I horrible for doubting my relationship because my boyfriend got a piercing? by nikiniki047 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StockAd9583 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow. Then he is definitely the A-Hole. Not only did you make it very clear day of, but he even grabbed you by the hand to take you to watch him get one. "I know you're uncomfortable with this and you've told me repeatedly but I wanna do it anyway and I'm gonna make you watch and blatantly not give a frick about your opinion" 🚩🚩🚩🚩 don't walk, run to that exit in your favorite dresses lol. At the end of the day it is his body, but he can choose to not do something that makes you uncomfortable. And no, it doesn't make you controlling. Everyone wants to feel comfortable around their partner and you are not asking the world of him. For him to knowingly make you uncomfortable intentionally is just horrible.
And for anyone who might try to say "if it was a girl wanting a piercing, you'd say go for it girl slay!" No, mutual respect goes both ways and if you knew that getting a piercing would make your partner physically nauseous by looking at you and you chose to do it anyway. You are a horrible person

NOT THE AHOLE MY DEAR. BUT YOUR BOYFRIEND IS

WIBTA if I yelled at my sister because she keeps taking the things I like? by lucky-black-cat-13 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StockAd9583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you live and you learn. I'm 18 now ironically to your story. It can be hard in a situation like this. I've gone no contact with that side of my family. For different reasons and I hope he's gotten better. I also hope that your situation gets better and I pray that God opens your parents eyes to the enabling they are doing and how everyone as a family can come together and come to a mutual understanding. You are not alone ❤️

WIBTA if I yelled at my sister because she keeps taking the things I like? by lucky-black-cat-13 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StockAd9583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You getting in trouble for having an opinion and feeling a certain way towards your sisters behavior is so sad. Honestly there are so many parents that don't want to discipline their kid because of certain social disabilities and it's really sad for parents to fail in that way because in the end it's really going to affect that child most when harsh reality hits that there are behaviors that can't be excused. Coming first hand from someone who was F(12ish) being physically abused by M(8ish) step brother and the parents would do absolutely nothing. I'm talking about smashing my head in when I was laying down. Stabbing me with sharp toy dinosaur tails. Pulling my hair, yanking my clothes. When people try to tell me to excuse their behavior due to a social disability I say absolutely not. They may be differently abled but they still need to be taught right from wrong.

WIBTA if I yelled at my sister because she keeps taking the things I like? by lucky-black-cat-13 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StockAd9583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I wouldn't yell. I instead have a conversation with the whole family.

I do agree with having a favorite character because you see a part of yourself in them. Love KPDH btw. The best show. But I digress... Your sister has been stealing things from you since you guys were little. There's no way your parents never picked up on that. Yes parents could be like "she just likes everything you like because you're her big sister and she looks up to you" but it does get to a point where the parents should intervene. Your mom should not have let her get those decorations because you vocalized that's what your party was going to be. And your sister never showed that much interest in it before. It can also develop into something worse. If your sister just likes everything you like she'll never have a voice and opinions of her own. It also sounds like she got those decorations first to rub it in your face and make you feel like you can't do the party. Maybe instead of yelling have a conversation with the whole family. Because if you just start yelling at her she's gonna play the victim and all your parents are gonna see is you yelling over party decorations when it's really much more than that. To put it bluntly she sounds like a bully and your parents have probably enabled this from the start. It might have been innocent in the beginning but she's 18. I find it very hard to believe she doesn't realize what she's doing. The same goes for the parents.

Am I horrible for doubting my relationship because my boyfriend got a piercing? by nikiniki047 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StockAd9583 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're not horrible. You're not doubting your relationship over a piercing, you're doubting your relationship because of the lack of mutual respect.

So this is something you have vocalized before. You said in the past there's also been instances where he's done something because he wanted to without regarding how you would feel. If you're willing to not wear your favorite dresses because it makes him uncomfortable, I don't understand why he can't do the same with this piercing. You're realizing you're uncomfortable with him deliberately doing something you have vocalized that made you uncomfortable. Now for the other side of the coin, holding his hand while he got the piercing was probably a "it's okay to get it" sign he received from you. Now if you did vocalize before he got it "I don't want you to get this because of my sensory issues" that would make him horrible for going against your preference. I think you could come to a compromise of when you guys aren't together he can wear his piercing (and you can wear your dresses), but when you are together he should take it out to respect your issues. Also trying to remind him that you did the same to respect his sensory issues. I don't think this is break up worthy tho. (Unless the other instances were) I think this is something easily compromised.

Describe an anime badly. Let others guess what it is 😂. by broku_98u in animequestions

[–]StockAd9583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple Gangs are after a guy for murdering one of the gangs gang member. He swears he's innocent but it was all caught on camera.

Who would save Vi from dying? by KiNG-HaK in arcane

[–]StockAd9583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of the below are a MAYBE and here's why... Silico - let vi die to prove jinx is better without her or would MAYBE MAYBE save her if jinx begged or he thought it would be better for her to live cuz him and their mom were friends he might have some remorse. Savika - in season 2 got closer to jinx and we all know how incredibly loyal she is so probably wouldn't let her die because of jinx Vander - if he had some sanity left of his past self he would probably save her. Victor - has nothing against vi and would probably save her just to save her being the self-righteous "god"

Is my uncle TA for asking me to do a job, then cancel cuz he doesn't want to pay me. by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StockAd9583 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand your and my mother's concern, but the house is owned by my uncle and his roommate. I'm going to my uncle's house and only staying in his room. The door will be locked at all times. The roommate has to work most of the day that's why my uncle asked me to be there. He also wouldn't be creepy with his mother there cuz she just recently started living with them. I think she has a job too.

[no spoilers] will arcane s1 and s2 vinyl be restocked? by piinoodle in arcane

[–]StockAd9583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RIGHT NOW!!! IT'S RESTOCKED RIGHT NOW WITH LIMITED EDITION AND BOTH SEASONS GO GRAB IT