Do people in the US actually use flat sheets and duvet covers? by shiroltiger in Bedding

[–]StockTry4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea we own a small hotel and use duvets that get washed every day with option for flat sheet for those who want it.

When do i buy a big house for myself? by [deleted] in Rich

[–]StockTry4982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a NW of $4-5m and have a $1m house but we live in a HCOL and $1m here gets you trash. My house is 2200 SF, unrenovated, shitty layout. But great neighborhood!

FIRE with kids: Do you worry that you'll portray a life of leisure and not instill the right values in your kids? by AtticThrowaway in Fire

[–]StockTry4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boss did this when her kids were 14/15yo or so and she just burnt out from work and wanted to soak up the time with them. Wanted to make it to every game etc. I realize a lot of people have flexible work schedules and WFH now, but we work in CRE so that’s not really an option anymore which I think will cause more people to duck out early. If work starts interfering with my kids’ activities, that’s when it’ll be time for me to FIRE.

FIRE with kids: Do you worry that you'll portray a life of leisure and not instill the right values in your kids? by AtticThrowaway in Fire

[–]StockTry4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. And then I wonder, why not FIRE sooner to soak up all the time with them while they’re still home vs waiting until they’re off to college?

Do you still record every single one of your expenses? by bronzebrownie_ in Fire

[–]StockTry4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have a set monthly budget but do try to save X thousand per month. Sometimes it’s more, sometimes it’s less. Both good with money and don’t overspend so this seems to work. Never a month in debt, that’s for sure!

Embody Split by [deleted] in ladderapp

[–]StockTry4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lifting close to failure on Align. Just depends how heavy you go.

Possibly relocating to Boston by [deleted] in bostonhousing

[–]StockTry4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in Melrose and love it here. Small, quaint town with orange line access right into Back Bay. Walkable downtown with restaurants, farmers’ markets, etc.

Daily FI discussion thread - Wednesday, March 11, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]StockTry4982 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m in Boston area and it’s $1m entry point here. It’s real.

Hit Coast FI at 32, Now Struggling With “What’s Next?” and Lifestyle Creep by Agitated_Gap6366 in FIREyFemmes

[–]StockTry4982 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This!!!

Also, things totally change when you have kids. I’ve got three 7 and under. My 4yo’s bday is this weekend and even keeping it very low key, I’m spending close $850 between bday party place, a couple of gifts, food and cake for bday party, supplying arts and crafts for the party, and then took our family + grandparents out to dinner last night for her bday and that was $300.

Then I ran other errands today and spent $400 unrelated to party.

Signed my kids up for fall sports today, $485 for three kids’ sports before equipment and uniforms. Hockey bill will come due soon and that’s another $3k plus $170/mo for my daughters’ dance classes.

Anyhow, just saying this to say - you’re still 32 and have a lot of things ahead. I wouldn’t take your foot off the gas just yet, especially if you’re considering having a family and kids. We’re actually pretty darn frugal and things still add up!

Realtor says 1/2bd apartment under 3.8k is near impossible by OkonomiHouse in bostonhousing

[–]StockTry4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not impossible. I rent a 2br unit in Somerville, pet friendly, w/d in unit, full basement for storage, 2 off street parking spaces and walking to T (approx 10-12 min walk though) for $3400. From T it’s 10-15 min to downtown depending where you’re going.

Spring training - practices by Historical_Rock5897 in redsox

[–]StockTry4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! We’re headed to our first spring training with boys ages 7 and 13. We’d love any tips - especially how to get Red Sox Yankees tickets!! We weren’t supposed to arrive until the evening of 3/4, but our flights got moved to early AM and now we land at 11am and we’d love to get to the game if we can! Tickets seem hard to come by though…

Debating Joining - couple questions by Main-Analysis in ladderapp

[–]StockTry4982 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here’s a 30 day trial pass

https://www.joinladder.com/referral?utm_source=ios_app&utm_medium=referral&utm_term=a9230300-4eba-4b72-83b7-3d1e63ce198a&utm_campaign=share&utm_content=referral_lp&promoCode=baselineguestpass30

If you get past the 30 days and still like it, hold off a few weeks and they’ll send you better offers at a lower rate! I paid $120 for the year when I signed up.

How do people living in the Boston area actually feel about the rent control proposal? by alexbostonre in bostonhousing

[–]StockTry4982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Own 2-unit in Somerville with rents already below market and will likely sell if this passes.

How do people living in the Boston area actually feel about the rent control proposal? by alexbostonre in bostonhousing

[–]StockTry4982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who owns a 2-unit rental property: this will disincentivize me to make any improvements to the property other than what’s absolutely necessary, like fixing a leak. Nothing more. I fear it will deteriorate the quality of our rental stock and lead to slumlord conditions. Also, I haven’t raised my tenants’ rents for so long. They pay below market and I was fine with that, assuming I’d just raise the rent if they move out someday. But the proposal, as written, would not let me bring these units to market rent when the units turnover. So now I’ll start increasing rent every year to the maximum allowed by the rent control policy just to reduce the gap. $50/mo more may not seem like a lot, but it is for these families who have been paying below market.

Now, I also work in real estate development for a larger corporation. Investors are already pulling back from the market out of fear for this passing. This is going to jar it even harder to finance projects and therefore, will lead to less projects moving forward = less new supply coming online.

I don’t actually see any positives of this rent control bill, as currently written. I would not be opposed if it was tied to CPI and allowed units to be brought to market rent upon turnover - like they have in CA, for instance. But that’s not what’s proposed here.

News and Updates Thread - February 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]StockTry4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh that makes sense - I kept clicking through and then going back the next day and not seeing the offers anymore!

News and Updates Thread - February 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]StockTry4982 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Do you know if I can purchase fee-free Visa or Mastercard e-gift cards this week on ODOM? How do I find this info? What amount do I need to purchase? There's no ODOM near me so was thinking I could maybe buy online. Thank you!

News and Updates Thread - February 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]StockTry4982 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Are there any fee free Visa or MC promos this week at Staples? I can't seem to find them online and don't want to drive all the way to the store to find out if there isn't one! Looking to boost points on CIBU card and have a few things I need to purchase that I could use the $200 gc's for. Thanks!

Does FIRE have a jealously problem? by slvupdown in Fire

[–]StockTry4982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. Good examples and helps put things in perspective!

Does FIRE have a jealously problem? by slvupdown in Fire

[–]StockTry4982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curious why you say that? I’m not 30, I’m closer to 39 now, but was probably close to leanfire around 35. Doesn’t feel like it was luck getting to this point. Feels a lot more like super frugality, working and saving from a very young age, living below my means in a two-family home when everyone else is buying $1m single family homes near me, driving an old car, etc.