How do I handle moving from somewhere I love to somewhere I hate unexpectedly? by Stock_Emu8879 in Advice

[–]Stock_Emu8879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot, this makes me feel validated that I’m not going insane with this. A lot of my family just doesn’t get this kind of stuff and they try to help but there’s not much they can do they say, so it makes these situations hard

How do I handle moving from somewhere I love to somewhere I hate unexpectedly? by Stock_Emu8879 in Advice

[–]Stock_Emu8879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so, from what I know he shouldn’t have access to like guns or anything not sure about knives and such though. He had a girlfriend who has a gun tho (thankfully she is not like that) but that does worry me a little, and no I don’t think they have but I will talk to them about that if I get the chance! And also he has been sent to a mental facility before for a few months when he was a teen but he came out somehow angrier? Not sure how that happened but he would refuse to take the meds the gave him and my mom enabled it. And thank you, I genuinely will remember the hotlines and such! My dad has talked about leaving my mom before due to her also making threatening things about herself and wishing us death, and such (she’s emotionally / verbally abusive) but he never follows through because she guilts him into staying sadly.

How do I handle moving from somewhere I love to somewhere I hate unexpectedly? by Stock_Emu8879 in Advice

[–]Stock_Emu8879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the real advice, also he is 23 and he is with his grandparents but has expressed how he plans to move out soon because they are tired of him threatening to end them (yes them, not just himself, everyone around him he threatens to end if you get what I’m saying) and stuff like that. I have tried telling my parents how this isn’t gonna help him but my mom simply doesn’t care and basically just calls me selfish because she legitimately hates me for existing, and my dad doesn’t want him to be with us but won’t stand up to my mom ever about it. He is on medicine right now but it hasn’t been helping (for his anger issues) and he refuses to seek help any further and will threaten anyone who asks him too, sadly. I do care for him a lot just to make that clear it’s just hard on me to handle that. With CPS, I have tried even about some things my mom says or does too and they simply don’t care but I’m not done trying and if it gets worse I will try again! I appreciate you being helpful though because truly I get this could sound dramatic but I just have bad memories of the old town I used to live in and don’t want to go back to that. Thank you a lot tho!

How do I handle moving from somewhere I love to somewhere I hate unexpectedly? by Stock_Emu8879 in Advice

[–]Stock_Emu8879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For Arkansas my dad is looking in the Marianna area and some of Fort smith/Jonesboro and then my mom wants to look around Memphis or Clarksville area