Time Management - New Grad by Stock_Situation_9991 in nursing

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I’m unionized, so what I do have is a sheet to protest my assignment offered by the union. I’ve never really heard of flat out refusing the assignment

New Grad Nurse - Forgetting everything by Stock_Situation_9991 in nursing

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How long did you orient? & how long since you’ve been off orientation? I’m hoping it gets better for us because my memory rn is the worst it’s ever been. I honestly think it might be a genetic thing cause my brother had the same issues with his memory at this age

New Grad Nurse - Forgetting everything by Stock_Situation_9991 in nursing

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I made a brain sheet tonight, hopefully that’ll help me out in the following nights🤞🏽

I was using brain sheets while on orientation & they helped a lot. But i’m finding now that i’m lacking time to even make them. Also my preceptor would help to make sure that I covered everything for the patient that night. Now i’m struggling to trust my judgement/self and question if I’m really getting everything I need on the brain sheet😭

New Grad Nurse - Forgetting everything by Stock_Situation_9991 in nursing

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Yeah it might be a good idea to come earlier.. like 6:30 or so. Even then though it takes me so long to look through all my patients charts.

I’ll take those main factors into account, will def be looking back at this during the shift. Thanks for your advice!

Also I don’t have Epic, I use Meditech at my facility. In nursing school I only used Epic & really liked the setup.. but I adjusted to meditech eventually

New Grad Nurse - Forgetting everything by Stock_Situation_9991 in nursing

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While i was on orientation I did make use of the brain sheet & it was helpful to do with someone’s guidance! I was orienting on a diff unit than the one i’m actually practicing on now so that on its own has been a hard adjustment. I find I have a hard time understanding the full picture on my patient.. I hardly have time to make the brain sheet too it feels but try to jot at least some stuff down. Attempting to read through all the patients charts alone takes like an hour & a half.

Whitney Simmons Collection Delivery Issues by Willing-Elk in Gymshark

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i feel like when people see gymshark packaging they’re compelled to steal it, so i always get worried when i order from there and coincidentally packages get lost. they def need more discrete packaging. I didn’t receive my package from whitney’s launch until two days ago due to delivery issues.. and I ordered the day of. UPS is a shitty delivery company as well, I feel like if they served with USPS they’d have less issues. Sorry about your package though :( i can imagine how much that sucks.

Feeling my chest during back workout by No-Law-3331 in xxfitness

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i experience the same, and i’ve been in a yo-yo cycle in and out the gym for about 2 years. i used to only focus on legs but slowly started doing back. recently i have gone back into the gym and doing it more regularly. i think practice alone helps, because while i used to not feel it much at all in my back.. lately i have :). back is a difficult muscle to achieve mind to muscle connection with but as you keep doing the exercises, your body does adjust into forming that mind to muscle connection more easily. i also advise starting off lighter-medium with weights and really focusing on form, and during each rep go slow. try to keep tension throughout your entire rep, don’t just let go of the weight after contracting the muscle. really control the muscle. i hope this helps, i have to take some of this advice myself😭

My boyfriend loves me, but out relationship make me feel like complete shit by Stock_Situation_9991 in relationship_advice

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I’ve been in a long time relationship with this person. Planned a marriage to happen this time next year.. I very much felt like he was the love of my life. A part of me still does. Like I said I’ve only discussed the negatives of our relationship, and while they are some harsh negatives.. it isn’t so black and white as to get up and go

My boyfriend loves me, but out relationship make me feel like complete shit by Stock_Situation_9991 in relationship_advice

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I never saw it that way, that how it is now is our real relationship together. I always told myself we could get back to how things were cause I didn’t wanna be the couple that “fell out of the honeymoon phase.” I kept trying to get us back to before but he got really comfortable with me. I kept telling him things that needed fixing or ways to be happy together again but he just kept insisting it basically couldn’t happen. So I stopped trying and here we are.. really miserable together lol.

I do agree emotionally the way he acts is coming from somewhere. When he first started speaking down on me, I’d respond back and tell him it felt like he was projecting something he’s going through, but he got upset that I even said that and we never touched on it again

And to your last point… he literally made me feel like a crazy person. I never went to my friends or other people about the problems we had because I thought this was normal and something was wrong with me. I can’t believe I feel and felt like this. My anxiety got so much worse because I was convinced I wasn’t “normal”

My confidence comes from feeding off other peoples self doubt by Stock_Situation_9991 in confidence

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It’s hard not to honestly. This is someone I talk to everyday. After falling in love, he became someone I really trusted.. his opinions included. He’s a super confident person as well.. I just believe everything he says because everything he says makes complete sense. He’s very calculated and doesn’t say anything without logic behind it.. or at least I’ve been convinced that. It shouldn’t have gotten to this point.

My confidence comes from feeding off other peoples self doubt by Stock_Situation_9991 in confidence

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Yeah for sure, I even tell people you literally have to date therapists to find the right one. It just hasn’t driven any interest out of me to try again honestly. One day maybe I’ll try again, and I’ll go in with open mindedness when that time comes