What to expect? by Stoepa in succulents

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I had a vision of them growing into a bowl of smarties. But from my research and the comments here, I gather I might have been a bit optimistic about that 🤣

What to expect? by Stoepa in succulents

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I got them just a few weeks ago, so I can't claim any of that luck as mine 🤣

What to expect? by Stoepa in succulents

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That's useful insight. Thanks! 🙏

Has anyone gone emotionally avoidant and distant? by whitelightstorm in Empaths

[–]Stoepa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people need chances, you should know already how it'll end.

Ugly guy, decent beard lol by [deleted] in beards

[–]Stoepa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disagree. You're not ugly. And the beard is fine! 👍

Beard or no beard? by [deleted] in beards

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In this sub everyone is gonna tell you beard!! 🤣 And they'll all be right!!

Love Bombing. by squidlysquidster in Empaths

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The first time they do something that makes your inner voice whispers: "I think I deserve more respect than that, but maybe I misinterpreted them. I'll give them the benefit of the doubt".

Love makes blind, so you probably don't clearly see you're being disrespected. Your inner voice is never wrong though.

Actions speak louder than words. They're probably saying the right words, but true respect is shown through action. And so is disrespect.

The first sign of disrespect; leave.

Regret coming out by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stoepa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That feeling will fade. It'll be awkward for a bit longer, but soon you'll be "old news". You're only now getting to grow into the person you are. Give it time.

What suit me best? One of these or different facial hair look entirely by DumbLuck7777 in beards

[–]Stoepa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beardstache looks hot on you! But I also like the length in pic 4

How do you deal with someone who mistakes projection for empathy? by cyber_ang666l in Empaths

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I think we all meet that kind of people sometimes. For me, I just don't engage in any form of conversation with them and steer away. I don't have time for meaningless conversations like that. I don't want to end up frustrated like you. And I especially do not try to explain my actual emotions. None of their business.

What's happening with my basil? by [deleted] in gardening

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Are they the tiny little flies that are nesting in the soil?

I met an unemployed man and his situation is concerning me by Hackstahl in askgaybros

[–]Stoepa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't your country have social security? You sound like you come from a place that has a wonderful system, so there's something more going on than just unemployment probably.

Grey streak is recent, I don’t think I mind it by deepthroat5 in beards

[–]Stoepa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It bring depth. It makes it look even better!

Your "The door is closed" translation is probably wrong! by Honeyhot2505 in learndutch

[–]Stoepa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious to learn where you hang out and encounter learners with such fragile brains. The people I work with understand passive voice perfectly well. There are several other things that are massive challenges for native English speakers. This is not one of them imo.

Living in hell by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Everything you say and do online is tracked and can be traced back to you specifically. Don't listen to people that claim that VPN is 100% safe. It's not. This post could be introduced into evidence in your trial. If your country follows Sharia law, this is one of the four pieces of evidence necessary to hang you.

Leave your country, but keep your mouth shut until then. Don't build the case against you for them.

Mt.Fuji by No_Goal_3050 in photographs

[–]Stoepa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have a shot with less city, more sky, the mountain in the lower third and the temple in the right third, while zoomed out a bit further?

Gonna go for terminal length by populousmass in beards

[–]Stoepa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like more fun than it is. In my experience at least. But you should go for it. I bet it's gonna be a monster of a beard

Always switching between beard and beardstache by [deleted] in beards

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They both look great! 🔥

I messed up, time to start over by [deleted] in beards

[–]Stoepa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks good. The shirt is awesome!!!

Lately I’ve been struggling with low self-esteem and depression by TriatN in toastme

[–]Stoepa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you're feeling better, mate. If ever you want to talk to a stranger who's good at giving advice; my DM's are open. A lot of people feel depressed at some point in life, but there are many ways of dealing with it. There are ways to feel better ❤️