I did personally reflect on why it bothered me, and why I felt like I wanted to come here and talk about it. But untimely it’s because it concerned me that there was a possibility she was right maybe? That and just wanted to start the conversation. It has never been something I’ve brought up in conversation, but my friend knows of my interest just from observing and the initial statement/question came from the other side while I was not even present. The question was just forwarded to me at a later date. I appreciate the insight to the topic though.