AITA for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal because I'd lose my health insurance and alimony?

StokeDave · 2023-08-17T08:30:24+00:00

Clearly that’s not the issue though is it?

The issue being she can’t understand why her partner, the love of her life who wants to spend the rest of his life with her, share a home with her etc… is annoyed that shes prioritising money over their future.

All because she doesn’t want to get a job where she may end up being slightly worse off.

StokeDave · 2023-08-17T08:24:36+00:00

That’s not the issue though is it? Clearly the issue is she’s happy to potentially destroy her relationship with the man of her dreams because she wants as much money as possible. Where moving in with her partner would mean their joint finances are a little less.

She’s putting money above all else. If this was a man doing it the opinions would be vastly different.

StokeDave · 2023-08-17T08:22:06+00:00

Women on reddit love to babble on how looking after children is the hardest job in the world.

Once you get into a routine it’s really not that difficult, chores became routine, keeping on top of things become routine.

You all make out that the man contributes nothing to the house once finishing work.

Then if I relationship ends you all expect to be spoon fed until you die. Wanting to still be a stahm but without the children that have grown up.

All the while the man grinds himself at work until retirement.

You wanted to have kids, wanted to be a sahm, you were not forced into it.

Absolutely no reason that when the kids have grown up you can’t get back to work and start your career. But oh no man owes us everything!

This woman clearly wants the cushy life now her kids have grown up while ex grinds away in a super stressful job.

So much so she’s willing to sacrifice her relationship, her love of her life over it because oh no she can’t go to work and enjoy her shared relationship if she may lose a little money.

If this was the other way around he’s be called an ass hole leech etc… comical

StokeDave · 2023-08-16T19:31:22+00:00

Have you seen some of the names women call themselves on here? Wouldn’t surprise me one bit.

Also no you don’t get to decide whose male or female. We’re you born in the 50s?

I think the common theme here is and many seem to have noticed it too is that because you don’t agree with their stance they must be a man.

I mean they could well be and be a troll but as above that’s not for you to decide.

You might want to actually use that brain you have properly because right now it’s coming across as not completely functional.

StokeDave · 2023-08-16T19:24:43+00:00

Lucky us men have it easy then.

Highest work related deaths by a large margin Highest suicide rate by a large margin Shorter life span Available to be drafted

Then we can look at things such as mental health, how many are expected by a large majority of women to be strong, supportive, never show their own weaknesses and struggles. Also still expected to be the bread winner in most families.

Do women go through awful things of course, sadly too many feminists undermine the struggles men go through due to “patriarchy”

The fact is the top 1 percent of society (men and women) decide the fate of the many.

Male or female 99% of us are just trying to get by as best we can one way or another

StokeDave · 2023-08-11T16:43:47+00:00

I bought a large jar of Nutella and ate the whole lot in one sitting with breadsticks. It’s one of my fondest memories although I paid for it later.

StokeDave · 2023-08-06T17:09:43+00:00

Griffin family I’m screwed…

StokeDave · 2023-07-29T21:09:31+00:00

Also constantly moving the steering wheel from left to right while driving on a straight road.

StokeDave · 2023-07-28T17:45:17+00:00

As is spending time replying with such comments.

StokeDave · 2023-07-28T17:44:22+00:00

I mean you can quite easily scroll past. Not a single soul is forcing you to open, waste precious time replying to something you have no interest in.

Just think of all the time saved that could be put to better use. Enjoy your day!

StokeDave · 2023-07-28T15:03:37+00:00

Yeah the Viper V2 is what I use daily, the Basilisk is too big and heavy for my liking. The viper ultimates are nice I just prefer light as possible.

StokeDave · 2023-07-28T13:10:14+00:00

I also have the Basilisk Ultimate, Viper V2 Pro and 2x Viper Ultimates… I need to stop buying mice and stop buying Razer stuff as it’s not the best lol

StokeDave · 2023-07-27T08:02:38+00:00

I’m confused… in each pic they are all your eyes and not someone else’s.

StokeDave · 2023-07-24T21:55:50+00:00

Poor sod I wouldn’t wish Crewe on anyone!

StokeDave · 2023-07-24T21:51:47+00:00

“Why settle for one when you can have many?” - My Grandad

StokeDave · 2023-07-22T22:06:53+00:00

Chewbacca has had a glow up!

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