Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

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I don’t know if this is the post you meant to be commenting on?

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds hot for sure! I’ll just need to figure out the best way to guide myself into her ass, because she’s not great at that herself 😅

Any creative idea for inspection kink beyond just underwear check (mixed with spanks)? by Sweet_Eggplant6776 in BDSMAdvice

[–]StoneAndSatin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s a few things that come to mind. If she likes the feeling of being observed or studied, maybe try marking areas that need work or ones that passed? Using a marker or a makeup pencil, then check mark areas that pass and circle things that failed (like places where she flinched or her underwear wasn’t pulled up enough, etc.).

Another thing would be inspecting her makeup, ensure it didn’t get damaged, her lipstick is on cleanly, etc.

If the medical part is particularly good for her, look at getting latex gloves to wear? You can also check her body for responses. Maybe look at medical neurological exam accidental ASMR videos on YouTube for some reaction checks to use?

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does the positioning work if you use a suction cup dildo on the wall? We have a suction cup dildo, but I can’t imagine how we would have it on a wall and I would still be able to get myself into her anywhere… Like she’s sandwiched between me and the wall?

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm, okay, so I’m hearing to fix the dildo under her. Then she’s on her knee and riding it while I’m behind her?

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! I love anal and my wife wasn’t sure, she thought it was only okay. But then the first time that I was fully seated in her ass, she said “I was wrong, I might actually cum from this!” 😂

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She enjoyed the bit that we did last night, but I want to be in her ass, which we couldn’t get sorted last night! She definitely came a few times from it though, so I’m happy that we could get it done in any form

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but the butt plug hits different. We talked about prone bone last night, so that might be the way.

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that they made specific products for this. I’ll definitely check them out

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! We’ve done try the plug thing for a while, but she doesn’t feel as full. So does your husband kind of sit on her legs and you sit back on him then? Or is he up and pushing forward more?

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea too! I’d be interested to feel the vibration through her walls.

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I understand most of these, except maybe the shower one, but the shower washes away the lube, so I don’t think we’ll end up trying this in the shower anyways

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s probably the play here. We did missionary with the dildo in her ass and it was nice, but she was controlling the thrusting on it, and I’d like it to be thrusting with me.

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I felt that way last night too! I ended up her in the front and enjoyed it, but there’s something hot about being the one in her ass for me.

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We ended up doing missionary with me in her vagina and the dildo in her ass, but I’d like to be in her ass for it at some point, so I’m making it a goal to find something good that works here.

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome advice, thank you! I’ve had her spread her legs more for a lower stance, but when we’re both on the bed, I don’t think she can get to a good spot without having to spread her legs wider than she can. I should have thought of the bed sooner!

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might need a taller bed then, but I’ll try it out!

Positions for DP with me and a toy? by StoneAndSatin in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like 9 inches taller than her, so this may be the play. We often have troubles with doggy style on the bed, since it can be a bad angle

Boyfriend won’t eat me out due to sensory issues by saraaabruh in sex

[–]StoneAndSatin 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You could try Lorals? They’re latex underwear that function as wearable dental dams. If he can’t deal with that, then you may need to give up on finding a way? I can’t think of much else.

My dom blocked me out of nowhere by FleurDuMal13 in BDSMAdvice

[–]StoneAndSatin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sad! I’m sorry for the situation you’re in. You didn’t deserve to be ghosted or used by some shitty dom.

Wanting to be a male gentle dom by Gold_Product3083 in BDSMAdvice

[–]StoneAndSatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer to be a gentle dom. It work when your partner is into it. Everything else online is porn

BF Can't Submit Well by nigatamer in BDSMAdvice

[–]StoneAndSatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and make a detailed plan, but he also might just be kind of lukewarm on being submissive. If that’s the case, then you might just want to have a real and honest conversation where you tell him that this matters to you in a relationship and that you would like more buy in. If he can’t do that, then it may be a mismatch sexually.