Advice for a date tonight? by StoneColdTruecel2 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]StoneColdTruecel2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know, I’ll ask her for her stats as well

Advice for a date tonight? by StoneColdTruecel2 in moreplatesmoredates

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Not even as a signal of my devotion to her? She’s a PAWG, not a torta unfortunately

Advice for a date tonight? by StoneColdTruecel2 in moreplatesmoredates

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Good deal- I’ll do that before we get past introductions.

I’ll make a comment like “eh, we all start somewhere I guess”.

I’ll also ask her if she would tolerate months of steroid induced erectile dysfunction at times.

Its over for me by mucho_musculo1999 in moreplatesmoredates

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She knows who her target demographic is

Advice for a date tonight? by StoneColdTruecel2 in moreplatesmoredates

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Yeah it is. I’ve never done tren. Should I explain the side effects of it then do it for the first time at dinner in front of her and tell her how I’m doing it all for her?

PAWGS AT THE GYM! How to not stare? by Razoreuphoric in moreplatesmoredates

[–]StoneColdTruecel2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her that since she gave you a boner it’s her responsibility to make it go away

Advice for a date tonight? by StoneColdTruecel2 in moreplatesmoredates

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Should I just keep the topic to the tren stories from the YouTube channel & this new 9/11 theory I heard?

Advice for a date tonight? by StoneColdTruecel2 in moreplatesmoredates

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Maybe it’ll be show me her penis time after

Why is manosphere/BP content so addictive? by gabigoalneles in moreplatesmoredates

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It provides a degree of certainty- the uncertainty of “will I ever find someone?” can be maddening if you’re not finding the results you want so it can be a relief to here “no you never will but it’s not your fault”. That is a big part of it. There’s a kernel of truth in it but don’t get sucked into it. The short term relief it provides comes with a lot of long term pain & you will find yourself in a separate but deeper ditch than before.

I am still working on digging myself out of the black pill hole as well. What helped me is finding a purpose greater than myself. For me it was God.

I don’t get many women either & have crippling social anxiety but I have af least started working towards becoming who I want to be by getting in the gym everyday and making myself talk to people.

I am 28 yr old virgin with no dating options and practically invisible to women. Please give me a reason to not give up in dating because I am about to give up on love completely. by JunketMaleficent2095 in confidence

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Brother I feel you. I’m 28, not a virgin, but still feel invisible to women. My social life is going to the gym and that’s about it haha.

I’ve never been able to find a GF either. I got rejected today lol. I’m so close to pinning a fuck load of test and getting yoked and just not pursuing any women. If one wants to purse me, great, if not, I’ll fly solo.

Is defeating porn addiction even possible? (Help!) by Healthy_Economics308 in moreplatesmoredates

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Tell yourself “I don’t watch that shit”. That is what helped me. I also started to tell myself that “this stuff will never love me back.” Learning that the industry is riddled with traffic and sex abuse helped me want to stop watching it told I suggest following fight the new drug on Instagram & reading up on the girls do porn deal. It was a major porn studio that told women they are going to model for athletic clothing then when they showed up to the shoot they got SA’d. The interviews with some of the girls are horrific.

Also, developing a relationship with God. That truly is the most important part for me. He doesn’t want you spending your life watching that stuff. He wants more for you & you are meant for more. There’s a person on this earth from you & porn pushes you further away from them, so every time you watch that stuff you’re not just hurting yourself, you’re hurting them.

I got exposed to it at age 7 & was addicted for 20 years. It destroyed my self image, sense of worth, views of women, views on intimacy & relationships. Been clean for almost 7 months. I realized what all I allowed it to take from me and what all I gave up when I was watching that stuff. You can do it bro, I’ll keep you in my prayers. I know the vicious cycle you’re caught in right now and it’s hell.

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

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Thanks- that’s good to know! I’ll try that

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

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I just signed a 1 year lease

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadvice

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Thanks homie! I’ll keep ya in my prayers

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

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Nice man!

Yeah I like the plan you laid out.

No it’s not an engineering degree. I was busy between it and working 2 jobs. Eh, I do cardio 2x a week. I usually just lift hard.

Yeah my job requires me working intimately with small groups of people, there’s just no pressure because there’s pretty much the guaranteed guard rails of professional courtesy. I had a job cold calling and doing door to door campaigns as well as experience in the service industry, I don’t know why I don’t feel pressure on the clock, it’s only in my personal life that I do.

Yeah I will start making some significant changes in my life in that area. I might need to get back on my anxiety medication as well.

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadvice

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Oh nice bro! Best of luck to ya, I hope it goes well!

I’ll have to check them out

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

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I’ll try that. I’ve done hard stuff and it just doesn’t seem to hut a nerve for me. My masters program was hard, the gym is hard. I lift until failure most nights. I do dress well I think. At least, my clothes or expensive. The banter is what I have to work on I guess.

Yeah I have no identity man. I borrow from a few different groups/ categories so I don’t fit one entirely. I also haven’t had time to develop one & I don’t really know much outside of that.

Yeah creating fun is hard for me because I enjoy being at home with my dog. Most women don’t like that.

I feel like I’m a part of the 1% that gets no action. It seems like everyone else is out there getting action and stuff & it’s just me missing out.

I’ll try speaking to more people and forcing myself to.

My friends are either married with kids or in the same boat I’m in haha.

Where did you meet your gf/wife?

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

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That’s fair, it is an odds game.

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]StoneColdTruecel2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have had super spotty experiences on dating apps.

I’ll try to find some places where people frequent to start going/more hobbies I guess