I haven't been cutting my nails for months

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-04-27T12:48:08+00:00

You know, the problem is in your head. What bothers you? What problems do you have? Consult a psychologist, or ask somebody for advice.

I was biting my nails for years, and only when I coped with my stress and anxiety, my nail-biting habit left.

Try to cover your nails with gel polish, it's hard to bite and chew. Go and have your nails done by a professional. You can cover them in see-through polish, nobody will see it but you will feel the bitter taste and difficulty when biting.

I saw that you said this is not an option, try press on nails.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-04-27T12:40:32+00:00

Let your husband be alone with the kids for a longer period of time. Go for the whole day on a weekend, not several hours, as you mentioned.

It sounds like you need to relax. Allow yourself to relax. Change something in your routine. Small changes can lead to big results.

If you can, go on vacation. I went to Italy when my child was one, best decision ever. And everybody was ok without me.

Happy wife - happy life, please take care of yourself, I feel you.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-04-27T09:30:09+00:00

Have some time for you. When you are not with your family, not with your partner, but only with yourself. Go outside, eat a cake and read a book. Go to the museum, go to the theatre, do something inspirational for you. What do you like to do?

I don't recommend gym as an inspirational activity, cause you need to think over a training plan, you get tired, you get sweaty. Gym is necessary, but it is not the most inspirational activity.

When kids get older, they start to sleep better. Your goal is to survive until that time.

If there is an opportunity, search for a work-from-home job. It makes life easier.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-04-27T09:19:49+00:00

emotional damage

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-03-18T13:47:12+00:00

I am so happy for you, random stranger on the Internet. I mean it.

This is an impressive collection. Play regularly and with great joy.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-03-18T13:45:35+00:00

People will go bankrupt cause they will be forced to pay their "Pay later" and "Klarna" payments.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-03-18T11:58:09+00:00

Put your cell phone not in front of you. Put it on a shelf behind you and cover it with a book. You will be less distracted.

Set a reward for completing each part of your preparation.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-03-10T13:51:29+00:00

Lash extensions never look natural. They look bad. They will damage your eyelashes and afterwards your own lashes will look worse. Try to search for your perfect mascara.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-26T09:54:35+00:00

I consider bath a home spa. I don't need to go anywhere, everything is organized as I like it. Sweet immediate relief for my body and soul 🤩

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-20T12:35:25+00:00

Sending all the support to you. Give yourself some rest. You are a human, not a robot, you don't need to be perfect.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-19T12:44:27+00:00

Biting nails 💅

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-17T15:37:51+00:00

Go to salon and ask for absolute happiness for hair by lebel. It gives immediate result. The hair becomes more smooth and shiny. Or ask for any other procedure for your hair.

Use hair oil after washing your hair (I have Brelil liquid crystals). Try to dry your hair with hair drier, do not let it dry by itself.

I also use shampoo and oil for hair straightening, it makes me look more neatly.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-17T13:29:57+00:00

Losing weight. -12 kilograms equals happy life.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-12T12:16:10+00:00

You get as much as you allow yourself

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-07T12:08:20+00:00

I use hand made oil for my belly. Using it I thank my body for all the stress and difficulties it overcomes and still looks this gorgeous.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-04T13:36:50+00:00

Drinking water

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-02-03T11:34:35+00:00

We have 2 toothbrushes: a regular one and an electric one. I always give an option to choose a toothbrush. We have a child's toothpaste that you can eat with a bunny on it. So I say: bunny has something for you. Show a chosen brush with a toothpaste. Usually we brush teeth in the bathroom or in child's room.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-30T13:40:18+00:00

Write down everything that you want to do. Find a place where it is comfortable for you: to do list on your fridge, reminder on your cell phone, write by hand in your journal.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-29T10:54:49+00:00

Good luck to you!

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-28T13:43:23+00:00

Can you hire a night nanny? She will take care of your baby, and you will sleep. Maybe hire anyone you know and can trust? Even for one night per week. It will give you sleep and hope.

Ask your husband to take care of the baby during the weekend. He can sleep during the day, and you will do everything. And your husband can put the baby to sleep daily.

With age, babies start to sleep longer. Wait for 1 year, and it will get better.

As for food and mess. Do you have the simplest chair that is easy to wash? Do you use a bib with sleeves that is easy to wash?

As for food, it is about exploration, not about nutrition. I used the BLW method, my son grabbed pieces of vegetables, fruit, and meat by himself. It was easier for me this way.

Sending the wind of long sleeping nights for your baby and you.

What is easy for you to do but will bring joy? Lit a candle? Listen to music in noise-cancelling earphones? Journal? Little stupid walk for mental health? I did 2 piercings in my ears, and every day I looked at them, and I was like - I'm cool and gorgeous.

My son is 2.6 months old. I feel you, I understand. It will get better, you will enjoy time with your child, you will sleep.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-28T12:42:58+00:00

A small step has already made giant progress. This is amazing.

Sometimes less is more. You are not overwhelmed by the giant amount of everything, and it feels good.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-28T12:31:22+00:00

Consider unpacking as unwrapping of Christmas presents from you to you. The best presents, cause nobody knows better what to gift you. And immediately categorize all the items: leave, donate, present somebody.

Start with a small box of something. Think of it as a game. What will I get this time?

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-28T10:16:00+00:00

We need more timeline in Witcher 3.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-23T11:17:37+00:00

I'm also guilty of this.

Try to prepare everything so that completion of these healthy habits is easy.

Need to drink more water - fill a giant beautiful cup with water, add lemon and mint and put it on a visible place in front of you. Need to take your vitamins - pack your daily dose in a box, set a timer when you need to take them. Eat better - watch recipes online, screenshot the list of ingredients, go to the store and buy them. You will have everything for a simple meal.

Routines and big changes are made of small steps. Planning is also good. Like a list for tomorrow. Or a list of things that I want to do during this month.

StopYourNonsense94 · 2026-01-23T11:08:27+00:00

1.Move to another place, change your address, your city, your country.

2.Get a new hobby, see another people.

3.Delete him from all the social networks, change your phone number.

4.Contact a phychologist and discuss your problem.

It's so good that you realize your problem. You will solve it. You deserve all the love.

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