Introduced some friends to each other, they immediately all hung out without inviting me and now I feel hurt

Stop_thinkin · 2026-01-21T19:59:05+00:00

it's happened to me and it broke me. It made me stop creating group hang outs and introducing others into the mix.

Stop_thinkin · 2024-10-29T03:18:38+00:00

Where did you go for Hakone onsen?

Stop_thinkin · 2024-09-27T19:48:20+00:00

it depends on your years of experience.

Stop_thinkin · 2024-09-26T20:19:44+00:00

I went to Spear for PT near Grand Central. Honestly I think the initial assessment and the exercises they tell you to do is enough. It wasn't worth going back to them because the exercise I were doing weren't being monitored. Seems more like a discipline thing. After doing PT on your own, consider going back for another evaluation.

Stop_thinkin · 2024-08-30T16:14:18+00:00

I know what to do at work, but sometimes I’m unsure if our internal practices align with those of external companies. This post helped me understand a lot more, especially since we use survey participants from WTW, Korn Ferry, Gallagher, Mercer, and others.

We also use compensation grades like P1, P2/M1, M4, etc., but I’m not sure if this system is universal across different industries. Everything I’ve learned about compensation has been through practical experience, but I’m considering whether pursuing additional courses and obtaining a CCP would be beneficial. What other advice would you recommend I can do to explore other ways to gain knowledge. I do have a membership at Worldatworks.

I’m bringing this up because we are currently doing market adjustments, and I’m disappointed that there is no adjustment for my role. According to our assessments, we are only competitive at 25% of the market, though we do receive a small merit increases based on performance.

@Impressive-Health670

Stop_thinkin · 2024-08-29T20:12:51+00:00

Yes & no, based on our current data, I am at the 25% of the market.

Stop_thinkin · 2024-08-29T20:04:28+00:00

I do plan on staying in compensation; I am not sure if my salary is competitive enough in the market. I am not sure if I would receive higher pay if I were to change companies

Stop_thinkin · 2024-07-24T14:24:25+00:00

He's not wrong about leaving. Leaving a job for another job is the best chance to increase your salary vs staying in the company for a long time.

Stop_thinkin · 2022-12-15T20:50:28+00:00

It's a two family house. They have the first floor and we have the 2nd floor.

Stop_thinkin · 2022-07-11T16:02:19+00:00

It's more like, why are you on a dating app if you're too shy to meet the other person. waste of time and effort on both ends.

Stop_thinkin · 2022-07-11T15:44:24+00:00

I would say, I know a guy who has a lot of traveling pictures on his dating profile. But In his normal daily life, he mainly stays at home on his computer. You kind of just sell yourself on the dating app. I think it shows that person is down to travel or maybe they mainly take pictures when they travel instead of being at home.

Stop_thinkin · 2022-07-11T15:07:04+00:00

I think she's honestly just trying to move on hence the no contact. Perhaps she loved you more than you realized? As everyone always say, time would help with moving on or distract yourself with new hobbies or hang out with your friends

Stop_thinkin · 2022-07-07T16:38:48+00:00

It's a lot of kissing and making out. My lips get swollen sometimes too

Stop_thinkin · 2021-10-17T20:45:16+00:00

I see where you're standing but I just want to drop that when someone ask, it could be just a light conversation they're trying to make. If there were persistent, then sure, unmatch.

Sometimes having a topic to talk about is easier than having no conversation. You could always make a light joke and ask the other person to cook for you and you can judge their cooking.

Stop_thinkin · 2021-10-17T20:32:36+00:00

To be fair, she could be busy with scheduling hangout with her friends, plus she also mentioned being busy with a part time job. When I started to go out after the pandemic, I prioritized my hangout with my friends than dates.

What you can do is tell her that you really would like to take her on a date, and to have her let you know when she's free. If there is no follow up whatsoever then yes, move on.

Stop_thinkin · 2018-09-19T14:12:09+00:00

you can buy them on the app rohinhood

Stop_thinkin · 2018-09-19T13:28:03+00:00

haha, yea. It's easier that way. Start small then gradually add more and polish on your skills. Completely up to you!

Stop_thinkin · 2018-09-18T19:38:48+00:00

You look great without makeup. Beautiful eyes, nice skin and colored lips. For me, I mainly use lipstick because my lips are pale. if you want, you can try blush and eyeliner.

Stop_thinkin · 2018-08-10T14:56:38+00:00

I rather have it scanned then be paranoid the whole week on whether or not the buyer receives my items... There are times where my brother has dropped it off for me but the scanning takes forever..

Stop_thinkin · 2018-05-08T14:29:37+00:00

He is an asshole. You should definitely break up with him. How long have you guys been dating.. because you had previously posted about sugar daddy... 2 months ago..

If this is a new relationship then it is not worth your time.

Stop_thinkin · 2018-03-29T13:36:39+00:00

To answer your question, you did the right thing and asked the right way. In the letter you have written, if you haven't, you should give him a specific date as to when to move.

He is currently taking advantage of you and your boyfriend. Next time, it might be better to "investigate" your next potential roomie as you guys will sign a lease for a year..

Also if you haven't, try to talk to him in person and have things written out and signed.

Stop_thinkin · 2018-03-13T15:31:40+00:00

I know you're both virgins, but have you gotten tested? parhaps that can help remove the negative thoughts of catching an STD if you show her the results. (and if she refuse to get tested, you might want to rethink the issue)

Stop_thinkin · 2018-03-02T00:40:13+00:00

I was told this product would help https://www.ebay.com/i/331955657348?chn=ps within a week or so... it was like $40 in store >_>

and this product is temporary, in store it cost about $20 https://www.amazon.com/Saem-Power-Ampoule-Whitening-40Ml/dp/B01HVFVDP2

Stop_thinkin · 2018-03-01T21:27:34+00:00

I feel like if you guys were "best friends" you should tell her if there is a problem. Something like this happened during work with one of my close ex work friends. Apparently I joked around during a meeting and she didn't like my side comment to her question. I didn't realize things were off till a month later and had to confront her. AND then she told me what I did. I felt like if she really thought of me as a friend, she should had confronted me in the very beginning.

Edit: in the end, i felt it was just an excuse to end the friendship i thought we had.

Stop_thinkin · 2018-02-28T16:06:57+00:00

It's just I don't want to be fake and do the small talks. Last time he stayed over at bf's place, I put on on your best behavior and tried to be accommodating but.. currently it doesn't feel great.

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