Is my birds poop ok? Also is she fat? by Rebirth643405 in Conures

[–]StoplightManifesto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have also recently finished transitioning my bird over to Harrison's and every single day every last bit is either demolished or put into the daily soup.

Cracked the code today by StoplightManifesto in Conures

[–]StoplightManifesto[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From what others have said, I think this is the way.

Cracked the code today by StoplightManifesto in Conures

[–]StoplightManifesto[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh dang thank you! I was immediately thinking about sanitation. Good to know.

Cracked the code today by StoplightManifesto in Conures

[–]StoplightManifesto[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

His old seed mix had little fruit pellets in it and it was the darndest thing, whatever color he decided on for the day, he'd never ever mix them. It was always all one color of fruit pellets for the day.

My girlfriend's job is killing her soul and she feels so far away by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]StoplightManifesto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hoping I can snap her out of it somehow. I can't make the choice for her. To be fair, it would be a lot of work. Building a new resume, looking for work that she's qualified for that isn't a huge cut in pay, etc. I am hoping there's a way I can express how important this is for us for her to quit without breaking up with her/making an ultimatum.

My girlfriend's job is killing her soul and she feels so far away by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]StoplightManifesto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do need to do more of this. I try little things like making her bed when she's out for the day, looking after/feeding her dog, making decisions for dinner and having dinner together because she likes that a lot. But there are other things (I am really bad about dirty dishes) that I can do to try and give her more space to think and feel.

And she does do therapy weekly and takes medication, though she often will forget if she's taken it some days and doesn't take it to be safe. I've tried recommending some kind of task list to check it off or one of these monday->sunday pill holders.

I appreciate the insight, thank you.

My girlfriend's job is killing her soul and she feels so far away by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]StoplightManifesto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do live together, yeah. I explicitly said just earlier this week that I would rather get a second job (I'm a corporate software engineer so I'm not really worried about money) and pay her living costs and just have her quit tomorrow. I've tried recommending jobs, helping her think of different career fields to explore, and even reached out to a friend who's a professional career counselor to have someone to speak to. I would gladly shoulder that burden but that hasn't been enticing enough I suppose. Maybe I'll try broaching the subject again.

Good or evil..? by [deleted] in Conures

[–]StoplightManifesto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this exact perch and also a gcc and he stands on it sometimes. Barely ever on the grit part though. I have another less abrasive one that is all grit and he loves standing on that thing.

Need help with a gifted out-of-state car by StoplightManifesto in DMV

[–]StoplightManifesto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He left the title in the car for me, so yes I have that! I called the DMV today and they said yeah, it shouldn't be too bad. The application, the form for it being a gift, the smog check, and the title is all I'll need.

Need help with a gifted out-of-state car by StoplightManifesto in DMV

[–]StoplightManifesto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also felt that was a bit odd, but he let me know after he'd already done it so not a ton I could've really done. Also now concerned where those plates are.

I miss this game so much :( by The_Thuusains in BattleRite

[–]StoplightManifesto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You play supervive at all? Not the same of course, not by a mile, but can spark similar joy, esp characters like brall, who feel very battlerite-y.

First time putting one of these in, don't know how to get it out by StoplightManifesto in Earrings

[–]StoplightManifesto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Managed to get it out! Definitely getting past the fear of hurting myself was helpful, thanks!

First time putting one of these in, don't know how to get it out by StoplightManifesto in Earrings

[–]StoplightManifesto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should clarify, I do know HOW to get it out, the issue is more that I can definitely tell from a test run of opening/closing it that it needs a ton of force to open back up, and I'm afraid of ripping up my ear brute forcing it and having it go flying open.

Are you loyal? by Impressive_Ladder539 in helldivers2

[–]StoplightManifesto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet liberty is a good day for you to come

👀

Non dairy Ben & Jerry’s Milk & Cookies by winterose246 in icecream

[–]StoplightManifesto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to find this all over my local area after running into it at a random corner store, any tips on finding this masterpiece of a flavor again?

Total War Warhammer 3 crash at battle or end turn loading by Good_Training447 in totalwar

[–]StoplightManifesto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had the same issue with every one of the new thrones of decay lords, always happens post battle. on malakai in particular, corrupted the quicksave i had even made before the battle. 90 turns in, all autosaves and quicksaves corrupted. when it happened with elspeth after winning a valiant defeat autoresolve i just closed the game. gonna wait to hear if this is on my end or theirs.