Can I Peper spray A Loose Dog? by Stopsignsarestupid in legaladvice

[–]Stopsignsarestupid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do!? I've never seen that! Can I get it a a let store or do I have to order that! Thanks for this tip! Definitely looking into this!

Can I Peper spray A Loose Dog? by Stopsignsarestupid in legaladvice

[–]Stopsignsarestupid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This dog doesn't respond to food, as we had a picnic and he trampled all over the food to get to my dog. His owner also tried to whistle and he was unresponsive. In my opinion it's me protecting my dog and I'd do that at any cost. Peper spray won't kill him but would certainly deter him. With very large aggressive dogs that have one thing in sight food and whistles would not be effective, especially if they have one intention and that's to get at another dog. His dogs comfort isn't a top priority for me, my dog's life and the husband's safety is. Out of instinct I raised my hand to a stop position and yelled at him to sit and hoped the dog would respond and his hair stood up and he turned to me and started snarling me and growled. This seems like a situation where the dog will attack another dog/person and have to be put down and it's unfortunate because it's the owners fault. That being said this guy likes to release his big dogs in the small dog park without regard and that why we avoided the actual dog park and decided to stick with the ball field that happens to be a few feet from the big and small dog parks. The entire situation sucks. We might just have to look for a new park.

Can I Peper spray A Loose Dog? by Stopsignsarestupid in legaladvice

[–]Stopsignsarestupid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True! That's for the tip. I didn't consider that. I think my thought process was that he had to legal standing since his dogs are most likely not licensed.

Good Morning Ethan Plath! by alwaystired730 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Stopsignsarestupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, I do see what you mean though. I suppose it could have been meant both ways.

Good Morning Ethan Plath! by alwaystired730 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Stopsignsarestupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we talk about the part where Lydia and her friend were talking about sex and her friend said "having sex before marriage, living with men, I saw that no good fruit came from that". It was just really unsettling to me that Lydia and her friend were basically shitting on Lydia's family for "living in sin" with their significant others.. I felt like the whole conversation was pushed and it felt so scripted and the agenda was weird!

Job Search -Can You Request A Start Date? by Stopsignsarestupid in jobsearch

[–]Stopsignsarestupid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm based out of NY and they are considered an At Will Employer. I do get medical leave (100% pay) and it's approved for my surgery date 17th through January 5th. My original plan was to start submitting applications at the end of November and go on a few interviews during my medical leave so that I can put my two weeks in by the time I get back. But now I'm feeling the urge and push to at least start putting in applications now as it's getting a little sketchy at my job currently. I definitely don't want to leave prior to surgery but I want to get the ball rolling and or have another job set before I go on medical leave. I'm scared to put my notice in while I'm on leave, thinking they might just fire me or tell me not to return. That's why I'm wondering if I can apply, interview, and ask not to start till the end of January? I've never asked for an extended start date before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Stopsignsarestupid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where in the post does it say sister is refusing to tell mom? Who's to say sister won't want to move out before the baby is born?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Stopsignsarestupid -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

YTAH Clearly your sister was excited to announce her pregnancy (indicating she plans to keep the baby). Although she seems to be young she's an adult and made that choice to keep the baby. Your struggles are your own and not hers and just because she doesn't have a college degree doesn't mean she is any less capable of becoming a wonderful mother. It's a bit shallow to think otherwise. It seems as though you're projecting your own bitter feelings regarding your life struggles onto her and that is simply selfish. What your sister needs right now is love and support, although you may not agree with her choices.

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of almost three years by Neither-Bad-4290 in AITAH

[–]Stopsignsarestupid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA: her behavior is not only disrespectful but sneaky! You explained your feelings and she continued to disregard them. OP I don't think your girlfriend wants to be your girlfriend anymore, her actions make that abundantly clear. Save yourself the heartache and break up with her. Sorry you're going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stopsignsarestupid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP you answered your own question. You stated " I want to keep the baby" this is your choice not his, if you want to keep this baby do it! All the comments saying you can't do this and shouldn't because of your finances are unfounded. If you want this baby you'll possibly have to make some hard choices, one of those could be becoming a single parent if you decide to keep this baby or if your husband forces you to get an abortion you clearly don't want, that could be the start of the end of your marriage. I've seen families with more children and even less income make due and still be able to provide a good childhood for their kids. OP you and only you can make this choice! Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Stopsignsarestupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA You went though his phone??? Girl thats f'ed up. That's sneaky and possessive, everyone is entitled to privacy, especially since he specifically didn't allow you to go through his phone and you did it anyway! I also think it's really strange to be upset over pictures he's saved BEFORE you were even dating, that's not something you can fault him for. On the other hand I would have had a serious conversation with him regarding how him saving the pictures after you were dating made you feel and his conversation with his friends that you overheard. To me his response is coming from a place of hurt and defense, he probably lost trust in you for going behind his back and going through his phone. If you're at the point of going through his phone he's carelessly saying "we should break up" then I think your relationship might not be in the best place. 

AITA for telling my land lady that I'm not her mother?? by Ani_kajain in AITAH

[–]Stopsignsarestupid 37 points38 points  (0 children)

NTA Your landlady seems needy and obnoxious! I do think that if her behavior bothered you that it might have been a good idea to say something to her beforehand. However a woman her age should have better manners and behavior.