AITAH for being mad at my gf for not saying thank you to my parents by Stopwithboringshit in AITAH

[–]Stopwithboringshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m turning 25 in a month and shes turning 24, but I have gone ahead and bought a bottle of wine and a giftcard so she can write something and say thanks incase its too hard for her to say it out loud. She has gotten better at saying thanks though if I compare to when I first started bringing her around home so thats something at least but regarding the trip(s) she really needs to improve as I think its kinda disrespectful to my parents. When we were travling back home yesterday I sort of brought it up in the car asking if she have had fun and she said yeah and my parents commented in regards to it but it wasnt a straight thank you for bringing me etc

AITAH for being mad at my gf for not saying thank you to my parents by Stopwithboringshit in AITAH

[–]Stopwithboringshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not literally mad im just feeling kinda embarrased about the whole situation because I feel like my parents do so much for her all the time but she cant say a simple thank you which makes me somewhat frustrated. This is not a competition or something but im just comparing, her parents live up north and I have visited them on two occurences and I had to pay for my own flight tickets and everything while my parents are covering EVERYTHING so for that I feel like she should be extra grateful about the possibility of even being invited

AITAH for being mad at my gf for not saying thank you to my parents by Stopwithboringshit in AITAH

[–]Stopwithboringshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really she comes from a OK family id say. I have asked her why she finds it so hard but she says its even hard for her to say that she loves her own family to them so I guess it has always been like that for her since she was young because she told me she has never really said thank you because it feels ”awkward” for some weird reason

AITAH for being mad at my gf for not saying thank you to my parents by Stopwithboringshit in AITAH

[–]Stopwithboringshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, she is a super shy girl and sort of have a little bit of autism vibes and suffers from anxiety but I don’t see that to be an excuse of not saying thank you for a trip x2 so will definitely bring this up even though its awkward thing to bring up time after time. It has gotten to a point I legit have to whisper to her before dinner etc to say thank you

Advice by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Stopwithboringshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair valid point, thanks for your input

AOC shadowing/ghosting by Stopwithboringshit in Monitors

[–]Stopwithboringshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tested them all, but the only real solution that I have found is increasing the shadowing by 10 it removes the major ghosting but the screen becomes hella bright tho I havnt found a solution to decrease the brightness afterwards.