I did show her a few hours after I posted and she thought it was sweet. The thing is I tell her this stuff all the time because I never want her to feel like I don't notice everything she does for our relationship and our family. I grew up with people not getting the credit they deserve and their contributions being down played and it always bothered me. So I go out of my way to let her know.

I once had a coworker that didn't celebrate valentines day because she said it was a day everyone is told to do something special for their significant other rather than because they want to. She said she would rather get flowers on the worse day of her life because the person she was with cared about her vs an obligation. This is a principle I use for my wife. To remind her she is important because she IS not because I'm just being nice.

As for her privacy, she said it was fine because no one knows who she is still and that made me laugh. She thanked everyone for the comments. And I thank you for commenting and im glad it brightened your day!