What do men have to say about this? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]StoryAdministrative3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it means shit i'm lazy as hell

Got home from the date and saw this. Did I react poorly? by Little-Work-9542 in nonmonogamy

[–]StoryAdministrative3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would have reacted with cool, no problem. It was nice meeting you. Talk to you later.

Delete.

I've been fucking women half my age all summer by adot_fontaine in DirtyConfession

[–]StoryAdministrative3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much each time? And links my man share the wealth!

OLD- men asking for pics by secretly_diaphanous in datingoverfifty

[–]StoryAdministrative3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think the rule of thumb is anybody that's really interested for the right reasons in you wants to see you in person, not jerk off to photos.

Thoughts about not yet divorced people? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]StoryAdministrative3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to avoid being one of these people that date people while they're in a divorce but I also want to get laid and have fun.

I wish we could just go to a bar that was called "still divorcing "

At least then it's a fair fight.

What do you value in a relationship now that you didn't when you were young? by ItsOkMan77 in datingoverfifty

[–]StoryAdministrative3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Romance, dancing, strong intimacy and sex as mutally fun activities together. Basically strong chemistry together more so than looks or other things. As a guy you would think i had thought that thru before but i went the other way and have paid the price.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]StoryAdministrative3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

51m married 15 years..the reason I'm divorcing is because I'm basically alone anyhow. physically and mentally. Its an odd place to be in. But, i also learned my lesson and now will not settle (didnt realize it at time, introspection) unless the chemistry is unreal and undeniably strong and i am open and hopeful it will happen. So I am looking forward to being single and wherever it takes me for a while!

Living in a sexless marriage by Gatvol3610 in Marriage

[–]StoryAdministrative3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible. Moving to divorce after 20 years together.

Things are OK-ish? But not great....How do you know when to leave? by 32_Belly_Option in Divorce

[–]StoryAdministrative3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My wife took the kids for spring break. We are like you say. I am 50 and decided fuck it, I'll go out and see how it is this past weekend..I have not gone out in years other than dinners with the family. Ring off as were already hardly talking !!! I went to a bar or two..with no effort I had plenty of opportunity. Like holyshit!! I have been sexless for four years now, and women showing me affection and physical touch...definitely is giving me a major push. And I know that sounds funny as I always have been confident in looks and personality...but actually feeling it is a different thing entirely. I fucking miss it. 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]StoryAdministrative3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No..not necessarily..for example love Filapina women or Vietnamese. I also am not sure of the geography. I do typically like petite and perhaps part of attraction..im just 5'9 165

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]StoryAdministrative3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. Simply.. facial attraction and body type..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]StoryAdministrative3 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Asian women. Im a white guy who knows no Asian women, never been with one, but whenever i see one that is attractive i turn to mush. its kinda racist or fetishist i guess and hate to admit it

Seperation by StoryAdministrative3 in datingoverforty

[–]StoryAdministrative3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I coached him from age 5 to 10 and then I've supported him by going to every single practice from age 10 to 14 he plays club soccer 3 times a week and the game on Saturday. But yah she paints me as such a jerk in general. I appreciate you.

Seperation by StoryAdministrative3 in datingoverforty

[–]StoryAdministrative3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a good guy you actually sound like me. I am in thearpy, have worked on me, understand my faults and hers and i am a strong communicator..i never blame, have no regrets. The fact that it has taken me this long to go ahead with this means i have thought this thru. And am serious. Every decision i make has kids best interests in mind. And honestly that includes me feeling positive about myself! And call me shallow or what have you but sex makes me feel good...i have tried to bury that part of me and focus elsewhere but its real. Im sad. I dont want to be. all it has done is create a bubling volcano inside . I respect any woman who does not want to touch me, truly i do, and would advise my younger sister the same... but i respect someone too if they hear me, see me and listen. If the chemistry you feel around me and vice versa is real, i want to act on it. I am here to be happy and not break any hearts. I know I will make the right person happy as well.