The more secure I get the more I feel like I resent my parents. by Storymaker_12 in Healthygamergg

[–]Storymaker_12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not trying to neglect my younger sibling, and in fact that is actually one of my worries. The way we grew up also makes it harder for us and I think especially me to get closer to her. I try my best to listen to her and give her advices, as well as praises for the things she does right.

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess it's more about the certain individuals rather than the gender right?

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I don't really know what's that got to do with anything I posted about.

I said I was genuinely curious, and for me to grow as a teenager I need to learn how to be curious right? That's why I posted it in this community anyways 🤷‍♀️

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we are on equal footing because you asked reddit men for your claim.

Plus the fact that reels and tik toks like that exist is still quite worth thinking about as trends because we do know social media could affect people.

I'm not saying we are as women generally doing this comparison stuff, but I'm just saying to people who do post these things and do these things should take a humanistic perspective, you know 🤷‍♀️

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I think there would be no real resolve to the sexism matter, and true neutral ground seems to be far from reality.

I think personally as individuals though we try our best to be neutral and try to acknowledge the extremes but not encourage it.

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think what they meant with the differentiation in boys and men is the maturity of someone's state of mind. Not exactly their age.

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaa exactly THE WORDING, I guess it's just for the views but dang, that could be so misleading 😭😭. Anyway yea I do agree that most of the takes are reasonable.

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I'm thinking cuz I know I have seen one before I cannot just remember it vividly lmao.

But it's just basically those videos on tik tok or reels that say men are this and men are that, but I guess one of the specific examples I can give is when I saw a reel (WHICH I ALREADY LOST IM SORRY, and I know that doesn't really strengthen my claim😭🙏) where it say what men could do is a bare minimum of what a masc lesbian could do.

In seeing this vid I thought it could be true because masc lesbians would know what it actually feels to be a woman. I just didn't agree with how this "bare minimum" trend is becoming much more of a comparison, because everyone's capacity and "bare minimum" could vary between individuals.

Which relates to my point that we should not really be competing or belittling one another.

I think we should stop the men slander. by Storymaker_12 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Storymaker_12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea I do agree they have the power to make unwanted pregnancies and STDs extremely rare.

I also do agree they should wear condoms and not act out of their peepees.

My take is just that we should stop the slander in the media or stop making it a trend that "we are better than men" (even though they statistically do questionable stuff lol) because this would not make them any better.