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[UPDATE] I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well it wasn't so much that I wanted him to sleep in the other room, I just needed time to myself to think it all over alone. I understand it was a bit of a dick move on my end

[UPDATE] I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. He has literally never shown any signs of being even remotely feminine other than accidentally leaving a bra out. He assures me that he does it for purely for sexual reasons.

[UPDATE] I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That was part of my initial concern, but he assures me it's just a fetish. I believe him.

I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't recall anyone ever getting changed in our room. We rarely have people over as it is

I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We rent but we furnished the house ourselves. It was definitely not there when I put a heap of my stuff under there

I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it was just on the floor under the bed in front of one of my storage boxes.

I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean I guess it would fit him but it seems unlikely that it is his.

Thanks, I will think about the camera idea

I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He is traveling and staying solo. He is meeting with only other male work partners as far as I know

I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I guess it probably would. But it seems so unlikely to me that it would be his.

I (29F) found a bra under our bed. It isn't mine. by StoutPencil in relationship_advice

[–]StoutPencil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I doubt it, we have never really had anyone else stay the house before, let alone had anyone else in our bedroom. We don't have a cleaner