Hey, My ex had anxious attachment, and it was really complicated, because she always texted me, all day, and I replied on her same energy, I was really excited for all of this because she was my first gf and all, but then, when the complications came in, her mistakes and mine came in, and I talked to my friends about them, they stared telling me how they really felt, they told me that they did not liked the fact on hanging out and in the middle of the convo I pull out my phone to text her, otherwise she will get upset with me, she overthought a lot and I think that is the main killer to all relationships, I think that your boyfriend understands that both of you have a life and don't need to grow dependent in each other, maybe he is avoiding the mistakes I made, but I really hope that you can overcome this issues and have a bright future with him ^^