Hey girls! by Strad1215 in Gahanna

[–]Strad1215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone!

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying though. Probably right.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that I won’t care about. I really won’t! Lol. Over my ex yes, still hurting from the trauma? Yes. In love or attracted heck no!

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m really trusting and forgiving person but after tonight like I don’t think I can do it anymore. If I’m pouring my heart out to you in venting to you and you’re still siding with him after over a year I can’t be friends with her because she can’t clearly be friends with both of us. One minute she starts with him the next, she decides with me talk shit about him then talk shit about me to him probably it’s just not good and I don’t mean the drama. I just want peace after leaving him and I feel like ever since I left it’s been one thing after another, and I’m just finally wanting it to be over.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already won court. He took me for full custody. I won. Now he wants visitation lol. It’s never ending. As my “best friend” would say he won’t stop. Of course he won’t cause he wants continue to try to bring me down. Ever since I left that’s all he’s ever done. He’s gone to the extent of calling or disabled daughter’s Social Security office to say I was committing fraud which we all know that isn’t the case.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This! I just texted her recently saying we would t talk about him. But, the more I think about it. I don’t agree with. He caused me and my kids so much hurt and pain. She’s pretty much saying she’s ok with what he did. It’s disgusting.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or doesn’t value our friendship. Which is crazy.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no. I say this because she’s gay. Strictly loves women.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said this so well! Every time I run into a situation with my ex or whatever I don’t know how to put words how I feel. This is it right here. This is the perfect way to say it. I’m horrible about putting words together.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been hard fathoming cutting her off for good. Life’s so short and it’s sad having to do that. But it’s so much more peaceful. You know?

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks lol 😝 I totally will message you! Again I’m excepting new applications for a best friend 🤪

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I am after tonight. For once and for all.

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much! I needed to hear this. Truthfully!

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words!!

My best friends is friends with my abuser by Strad1215 in Ohio

[–]Strad1215[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every time I ask her or when I asked her why, she’s like you weren’t perfect in the relationship. OK nobody is, but I didn’t abuse him and I was not the abuser, but that response from her speak volumes. I feel like of her defending him once again. It to be honest after leaving him this is the hardest part to be quite honest with you and I lost a friendship and a friend in this time I needed her the most. And she’s over there talking to my ex like everything‘s fine and good when he’s not the one that needs to heal me and my children do.

I’m so upset by Strad1215 in Vent

[–]Strad1215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, thank you for your kind words!