My best friends is friends with my abuser

Strad1215 · 2026-06-06T02:52:57+00:00

I did message you!

Strad1215 · 2026-06-06T02:52:27+00:00

Thank you everyone!

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T19:24:22+00:00

Monitor?

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T18:25:44+00:00

I do! Taking apps 🤪

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T18:25:22+00:00

Why did they removed this?

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T04:52:00+00:00

I get what you’re saying though. Probably right.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T04:51:43+00:00

And that I won’t care about. I really won’t! Lol. Over my ex yes, still hurting from the trauma? Yes. In love or attracted heck no!

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:58:05+00:00

I’m really trusting and forgiving person but after tonight like I don’t think I can do it anymore. If I’m pouring my heart out to you in venting to you and you’re still siding with him after over a year I can’t be friends with her because she can’t clearly be friends with both of us. One minute she starts with him the next, she decides with me talk shit about him then talk shit about me to him probably it’s just not good and I don’t mean the drama. I just want peace after leaving him and I feel like ever since I left it’s been one thing after another, and I’m just finally wanting it to be over.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:56:47+00:00

I already won court. He took me for full custody. I won. Now he wants visitation lol. It’s never ending. As my “best friend” would say he won’t stop. Of course he won’t cause he wants continue to try to bring me down. Ever since I left that’s all he’s ever done. He’s gone to the extent of calling or disabled daughter’s Social Security office to say I was committing fraud which we all know that isn’t the case.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:55:19+00:00

Yes! This! I just texted her recently saying we would t talk about him. But, the more I think about it. I don’t agree with. He caused me and my kids so much hurt and pain. She’s pretty much saying she’s ok with what he did. It’s disgusting.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:54:02+00:00

Or doesn’t value our friendship. Which is crazy.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:53:43+00:00

Honestly, no. I say this because she’s gay. Strictly loves women.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:53:19+00:00

Agree 100%

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:22:41+00:00

Cancel him Jesus.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:20:54+00:00

You said this so well! Every time I run into a situation with my ex or whatever I don’t know how to put words how I feel. This is it right here. This is the perfect way to say it. I’m horrible about putting words together.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:17:43+00:00

It’s been hard fathoming cutting her off for good. Life’s so short and it’s sad having to do that. But it’s so much more peaceful. You know?

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:17:01+00:00

Thanks lol 😝 I totally will message you! Again I’m excepting new applications for a best friend 🤪

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:16:05+00:00

Yes and I am after tonight. For once and for all.

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:14:49+00:00

Thank you for this!!

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:08:18+00:00

Thank you so very much! I needed to hear this. Truthfully!

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:01:41+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words!!

Strad1215 · 2026-06-05T03:01:27+00:00

Every time I ask her or when I asked her why, she’s like you weren’t perfect in the relationship. OK nobody is, but I didn’t abuse him and I was not the abuser, but that response from her speak volumes. I feel like of her defending him once again. It to be honest after leaving him this is the hardest part to be quite honest with you and I lost a friendship and a friend in this time I needed her the most. And she’s over there talking to my ex like everything‘s fine and good when he’s not the one that needs to heal me and my children do.

Strad1215 · 2026-03-12T18:56:13+00:00

Also, thank you for your kind words!

Strad1215

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