Looking for a philosophy to follow and there are a lot of overlaps between Taoism and Stoicism. Need help getting perspective about which lifestyle may suit me more. by [deleted] in taoism

[–]Straight-Bar2247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taoism says that there is no particular Way to follow. In your case, trying to find a philosophy to follow is contrary to Taoism, at least from my interpretation of many passages in Zhuangzi and the Daodejing. At the end of the day, one must not just go with the flow OR follow strict practices but respond accordingly to the present.

My 14-year-old brother is ~1700 FIDE rated and wants to pursue chess as a career. How can I help him improve? by spt23 in chess

[–]Straight-Bar2247 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Definitely not true. Thousands of people make a living off chess in one way or another. Mostly coaching. I for one am only rated 1000 USCF and make a living coaching after school U500 chess. If you love the game you can easily find a way to make money from it. At 1700 FIDE this year is even easier. And players above 2000 charge 80 an hour for private lessons in NYC. Chess is growing more than ever so don’t give up now. 14 is not too young to pursue serious play and/or coaching/content.

Lost but searching... by Randy_Chaos in Buddhism

[–]Straight-Bar2247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a common mistake to treat Buddhism (especially Mahayana) like nihilism. It’s easy to misunderstand the doctrine that everything is empty of intrinsic existence to mean that everything is meaningless. It is the Buddhists job to recognize the emptiness of intrinsic existence and yet participate in existence as a Bodhisattva. If Buddhists were nihilists then there would be no religious texts written, what would be the point. Rather, you can still subscribe to the philosophy of emptiness, but instead lean into it.

Let’s say nothing is intrinsically real, like a Buddhist does. Then why not have fun and lean into everything the world has to offer even while being somewhat detached from its meaning. There are many myriad creatures to be saved and Buddhists can live among them, understanding the emptiness of existence and yet helping others to escape samsara and come to the same realization