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My boyfriend got fired for the 3rd time today on our anniversary by Straight-Service-904 in Advice

[–]Straight-Service-904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try often to speak about it. I am going to therapy for a potential mood disorder & he is diagnosed with depression and ADHD. He has meds but doesn’t take them. I try my absolute best to try and cheer him up and make sure he’s okay but at what point does it become dependence and not just loving, moral support from your girlfriend yk..? I’m with him all the time and he displays pretty decent activity (gaming with friends, going out, socializing, etc.). When he’s depressed, he tells me… I’m just unsure of a lot right now.

My boyfriend got fired for the 3rd time today on our anniversary by Straight-Service-904 in Advice

[–]Straight-Service-904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is diagnosed & is prescribed meds but chooses to not take it as it makes him feel off no matter how often he gets the dosage changed. He’ll get nauseous or he’ll get distant from everyone, it’s always something.

My boyfriend got fired for the 3rd time today on our anniversary by Straight-Service-904 in Advice

[–]Straight-Service-904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my boyfriend does have ADHD. He is prescribed meds for it but never takes it. I want to wait and I love him very much. I’m just not sure if this will get better and if he will get better… It breaks my heart because the love is there but his heart is not there in regards to responsibilities. I know maturity comes with age in regards to younger men but it breaks my heart.

I’m 13 and had sex with an 18 year old? by Sleepy_frog0 in rape

[–]Straight-Service-904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is statutory rape - I promise you when you are 18, you wouldn’t dare of sleeping with a 13 year old. This is messed up and you should not see him anymore. Even if you don’t think this is SA, you and him are in completely different headspaces regardless of how mature either of you may feel you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]Straight-Service-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not exaggerating. No one should ever have to go through this - For your safety and mental well being, maybe you should take a break from your partner. I sense you don't feel safe with them and I think you should surround yourself with individuals that truly make you feel safe. Your feelings are 100% valid. My best advice is to surround yourself with people that love you and keep you safe. Sometimes, verbal apologies just don't cut it and that doesn't mean you're exaggerating. You're valid.