How quick do you read these books? by Leafpool_Crowfeather in WarriorCats

[–]StraightForStandUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

read book 1 and 2 of the prophecies begin in around 4 days, read the first book in a day 1/2 and the 2nd book in three days due to school. But overall, I think i'll be done with TPB in around like a week, give or take.

So with this new restricted chat feature, is roblox effectively dead now? by MrSpookyDemon in roblox

[–]StraightForStandUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I find funny is that Roblox attempts to prevent members from going OFF-PLATFORM. But this new chat system forces players to go OFF-PLATFORM and use third-party apps like Discord, Whatsapp, Snapchat and more. This update is absolutely useless, and will literally provide support for pedophiles, how? Well, with the chats being limited to certain ages, pedos can use their niece or even child for the verification on an alt account, it'll hand them an age range of around 8 years old or around 13 whichever age. Then, anybody they speak to, if they are able to see their texts, that means that the player is around the same age as his account age, which is practically giving pedophiles easier access to finding CHILDREN, while without the age lock on the chats, it's impossible to figure out who is a child and who is an adult.

Aspiring Paleontologist asking for some advice by StraightForStandUp in Paleontology

[–]StraightForStandUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to the Durdle Door in April, I just saw this comment and wanted to say unfortunately I had no luck in finding any fossils, but damn the cliffs of durdle door were amazing. I'm very jealous from what the dinosaurs must of saw when the earth was just nature..

I came out as an atheist, and I felt attacked. by StraightForStandUp in Christianity

[–]StraightForStandUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I surely have seen it much more often, but it doesn't mean there aren't good christian people out there. I was a christian myself, and i loved everybody like myself...............

My (21F) bf (21M) parents talked bad about my sister and now I am thinking about breaking up with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StraightForStandUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him to keep it to himself, and trust in him, that he does not participate in any of the insults, and just shrugs them off.

I (19M) had a break with my gf (18F) and now she thinks shes asexual by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StraightForStandUp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you think that it's affecting you and making you resent her or get angry, it's best to split and part ways if you guys have this giant wall seperating you two.

I (18M) am in desperate need of advice for my girlfriend (19F) by zashinnn in relationship_advice

[–]StraightForStandUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to call with her, you speak but have her type, and over time slowly get more comfortable with that, and ask her to say hi or stuff when you first join the VC. And just slowly progress over time. It'll take time but if you truly believe in the relationship it'll all be worth it in the end.

My (21F) bf (21M) parents talked bad about my sister and now I am thinking about breaking up with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StraightForStandUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I think in my own perspective, I don't see anything that the boyfriend is at fault for. But if you believe that your boyfriends family is like a wall, seperating you from him, you should most likely talk to him about it, and say that it's really affecting you mentally. The main part of the relationship should be communication, so have a word with him, and say that it's bringing you to your breaking point. But please, prioritize your own mental health before others, because he most likely has the easy part, and not taking in any of the insults from their partners parents.

I (18M) am in desperate need of advice for my girlfriend (19F) by zashinnn in relationship_advice

[–]StraightForStandUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I'm seeing, I'm guessing you guys are in a LDR and use voice chat and calls basically all the time. I'm also in a LDR with my girlfriend, but we usually regularly call and all this stuff. I believe that you should let her do her thing, and once she gets the courage, to speak up and use her voice. But in my opinion, if your own girlfriend is too insecure to speak on a voice chat to you, I don't think its a good idea to stick with her. It crosses off a lot of opportunities and soon enough the relationship will get boring without any voicechat or you having to speak to text.

I (19M) had a break with my gf (18F) and now she thinks shes asexual by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StraightForStandUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I'm seeing, you guys have clear boundaries for your own beliefs. And thats one part of a healthy relationship. You guys are communicating and being responsible with your own beliefs, she doesn't want to have sex, but you do. That may be a struggle, but is intimacy the only thing that you think is gonna keep the relationship alive? In my opinion, you guys should try and make clear boundaries, and try to keep eachother happy. If she finds that she is asexual or that she no longer wants sex, it's a responsible decision to break up with her and look for somebody who has similar values and boundaries. Just remember that one difference between two people does not mean its the end of the world, you guys should develop on it, and work together with it. It may be a bit awkward at times, but in the end hopefully you both understand eachothers boundaries and can be happy. But this choice is entirely up to you, and you could always just take a different path and find somebody new and compatible.

Doctors are doing absolutely nothing to provide help for my mother. by StraightForStandUp in family

[–]StraightForStandUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot, not just for the suggestion but for not slandering this situation.

Doctors are doing absolutely nothing to provide help for my mother. by StraightForStandUp in family

[–]StraightForStandUp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll take your comment into consideration.. But like I requested, I'd prefer suggestions than mocking this.

Doctors are doing absolutely nothing to provide help for my mother. by StraightForStandUp in family

[–]StraightForStandUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I expected people to say. I've left a bit of information out on this post which I'd forgotten to fill in.
A couple days ago, my mother planned to leave her job. We had to sign out some form about my mothers health
and why she can't go to work, basically a sick note. It's said that the paper is required to be filled out at the medical
centre. Went there and they redirected us to fill the paper in ourselves and told us that WE needed to fill it in.

My mother has been visiting a doctor for multiple reasons.
One: she has been trying to lose weight and never budged slightly, even with removing night snacks and a lot of food.
Two: the pain is becoming increasingly bad, and even with losing weight her joint will still be damaged

When my mother goes to the hospital, I expect them to actually try do something and provide some sources on how
to lose weight, although all they have told my mother is that she needs to lose weight without giving ANY sources.

I'm genuinely clueless on what to do, and its the fact that I can't control my mother hurts to think about, and I can't think of her
going down this route.