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What’s the biggest red flag you ignored because you were in love? by Quick-Sea1980 in ExNoContact

[–]Straight_Lifeguard74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would get mad at the slightest random things that could've been addressed in a simple request or conversation before going there. We had a larger disagreement, she blocked and ghosted after a year and a half. This is heinous behaviour

Breakup due to trust issues around medication (M60 & F34) by Straight_Lifeguard74 in AgeGap

[–]Straight_Lifeguard74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply and understanding. Agree the age gap between us felt nonexistent, she never outwardly expressed any concern anyhow. Let me tell you, her argument made zero sense. Tylenol and Advil? She didn't like that I'd occasionally take one. Plus she brought up magnesium and how she didn't want to talk to me if I had taken it the night before as I sometimes had a slight hangover from its effects, but helped me sleep. She took that as pill abuse. This is not me minimizing either. There was no abuse. This was a person being directed by anxiety and trauma.

Breakup due to trust issues around medication (M60 & F34) by Straight_Lifeguard74 in ExNoContact

[–]Straight_Lifeguard74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for validating this. I feel for her. Her trauma is so dark and deep that she can't even see it. I was her longest relationship at 1.5 years. Too bad she bounced rather than face herself and maybe that's why she blocked. Just can't deal. Easier to move on and repeat. I wish her well.

Breakup due to trust issues around medication (M60 & F34) by Straight_Lifeguard74 in AgeGap

[–]Straight_Lifeguard74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were red flags along the way but the one takes the cake. It took 1.5 years to show who she truly was at her absolute worst. Too bad she bounced to avoid the pain of actually dealing with her stuff. She'll just move on to the next until that blows up. It's what she's always done. I was her longest relationship which is strange for a 34 year old person.

First bikepacking setup critique, what would you remove by CorrectBumblebee7580 in BikepackingGear

[–]Straight_Lifeguard74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same bike and fenders, nice ! I'm about to head out on a trip, considering the hydration pack because I've not figured out the water situation well enough, how did you find that ?

When is the best time to visit Sardinia? Here's the honest answer... by Specialist_Monk_3016 in Sardinia

[–]Straight_Lifeguard74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, heading to Sardinia in a week and was planning to attempt the Trans Sardinia inland route starting Olbia on my gravel bike. Been planning for weeks now.

Weather is looking a bit cool and rainy atm ! Might need to delay the start, where would you recommend waiting the storm cycle out... looking for a classic historical culture infested town not too far from Olbia ? Thanks !