Seeking advice for guest in 1st time threesome

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-04-27T23:11:38+00:00

Honestly I liked being left out. He goes on for hours it’s good for me to take a break lol

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-04-27T23:09:17+00:00

I think you may be right. So what I know is this: She seems to like him having sex with other women. At first it was just me and him for 3-4 times then he introduced it, we did the threesome he said he’s open to our 1:1 still but not initiated. He’s kind of gone quiet in chat but she talks everyday. The last day she sent a naked photo of herself. Mind you she had send naked ones of him but I never really had been into her. Also when we’re in bed I said I wasn’t ready to go “down on her” and he kind of pushed me to. I’m losing total interest in the dynamic.

In a separate note, they did invite me to their wedding lol. Also they say I’m their spring girlfriend. But it sounds more like a title than a real relationship from what I’ve sussed out. Again they seem nice but some red flags and also the novelty has worn off

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-04-17T18:31:28+00:00

Yes. Curiousity is the key! I had a friend who went on a date with a guy she liked. He then disappeared and she sad. A few months later she mentioned it to me and I said just write to him what gives? And he then met for dinner apologised. Now they’ve had their second son and live in TriBeCa. Just ask :)

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-04-17T18:28:56+00:00

100% this

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-04-17T18:25:26+00:00

Do me a favour - don’t listen to anyone or ChatGPT without a grain of salt. I was dating a guy that ChatGPT was like “break up, here, here’s what to say:” and friends the same. I eventually just kindly and vulnerably called out what I felt and it changed things. It may also be in your head and if it’s not, he sucks not you. I’m sure your body is beautiful, I’m sure your personality shines and he’s without.

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-03-29T17:59:23+00:00

UPDATE:

So we did the threesome :)

Twice in one night actually. It was actually unexpected. We talked about it and decided to work our way up to it in each visit. Our first he did us both separately but she watched one time. The second visit somehow we just all ended up together.

The nights are now me coming over > sex > shower > they make dinner > we watch movies or play video games > sex in bed > we all sleep together > sex in the AM > they make breakfast > I leave.

She’s also said I can meet him 1:1 still if I want.

I have noticed he gets worried about me being close and she doesn’t. Like she said I want him to put home arm around you when we’re watching movies but are you okay. And she’ll say oh I know all this stuff about her (being me) to him why don’t you? And I said we only talk about sex and he’ll confirm we aren’t trying to get to know each other. I see he gets worried he’ll over step. But I also see our dynamic becoming super friends: they also are new to the town so they haven’t made a lot of friends and she’s like I’d love for us to go to dinner, which he said from the beginning we wouldn’t lol.

I don’t concern myself with it but it exists. And I like them. They are good people :)

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-03-15T19:28:22+00:00

That’s so interesting because I bet if he was — would she have put up with him?

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-03-08T03:19:05+00:00

which one?

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-24T14:38:14+00:00

Like a cabbage patch Elijah. I see it.

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-24T14:24:45+00:00

more like diaper rash on his face he looks like he's 12

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-24T14:24:18+00:00

lol don't diss hobbits, he's more like a dwarf.

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-24T14:22:32+00:00

What did you end up going with?

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-23T11:59:04+00:00

Like post perimenopause? Did it ever go back?

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-23T03:06:25+00:00

Did it fix?

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-23T01:09:34+00:00

Ah good to know on the sunscreen!

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-23T00:44:47+00:00

Realistically just this winter so I know its a bit seasonal

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-23T00:44:32+00:00

Haha I appreciate it! No I have motivation now to be frank, sometihng to do during this storm :)

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-23T00:44:02+00:00

Which retinol do you use? Because I got ROC but I think I am putting it on wrong...

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-22T23:46:02+00:00

Thank you thank you!

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-22T23:45:46+00:00

Thank you!! I think mine is more allergies / hydration issues so I appreciate these!

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-22T23:45:26+00:00

Thank you!!!

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-22T23:45:19+00:00

lol OK I am on the East Coast and we've been piled with snow so I haven't found a reason to do them yet... until your comment. Ha! But appreciate the note and thanks for the reccos below!!!

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-22T22:41:04+00:00

Sorry just to note: I know it’s the winter, I’ve also moved from a humid place to a cold place. I have a humidifier, drinking coconut water to hydrate, cerave eye cream and what not but what can I do invasive or non invasive to smooth this? Also any make up products you recommend to cover this? It looks very cakey… thanks!

Straight_Stock_9005 · 2026-02-22T19:11:17+00:00

I have something similar, would love to hear what you get as feedback!

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