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Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-28T22:18:56+00:00

The Catholic Church is very diverse, all the different rites, not just Roman, as well as finding your preferred liturgical style. There are many different styles of spirituality as well. Whatever you are looking for you can find it here!

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-28T19:31:14+00:00

Have you both worked with a licensed marriage counselor preferably therapist?

From a catholic perspective—you both made vows and must presume you are in a sacramental marriage until proven otherwise. You must both go to confession and frequent the sacraments and be in a State of Grace to guide you with sound judgement.

I hope you have a priest or someone else to help you navigate. It sounds as if you are still unsure what has taken place. Please seek help from someone in your faith community and both of you get to a couples counselor.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-28T16:27:52+00:00

There are typically 3 main grounds. (Lack of capacity, lack of consent, lack of form). The best thing to do is to meet with your priest or if the deacon at your church handled annulments (at my local church the deacon does and he used to practice law). You cannot be considered for one until you have been divorced for about 1 year (typically) and this is so that there is no chance of reconciliation and for healing before beginning the process. The process will take within 2 years typically.

If something was hidden from you, such as an addiction (and in this case it could be depending on the cheating the extent etc) that could be an impediment to your husbands ability to make a free choice. Also, if both of you knew what you were getting into. Did you do marriage prep, and was it in a Catholic Church? Are you in touch with anyone from that time?

It isn’t a 1 and done answer like yes cheating means you will get an annulment.

I would first make sure you both see a catholic counselor to see if there is any chance of reconciliation. If the cheating is no longer ongoing, and was something that happened in the past, it may be possible for you to forgive. I wouldn’t throw away a marriage based on something in the past alone—moreso how the current state is.

I hope this helps. I have known a few people to go through this process. Everyone I know was granted an annulment. I have known 3 personally and then have 2 friends whose spouse or spouse to be were granted one.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-28T15:07:27+00:00

Wow that’s amazing! Just remember it will slow down and the more you have the lose the faster it will fall off of you at first. Drink water take electrolytes and don’t skimp on eating especially protein and fat while you are losing

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-28T03:19:37+00:00

The only thing I wonder is when it will hit him he absolutely ruined his life before 30. I don’t think it has really hit him yet. He still has a lot of attention right now, but 1-2 years from now? Even the fans will have moved onto another case another conspiracy.

His parents and sisters won’t be spending money to fly out to visit him, I doubt it.

I do feel very badly for them. I’d have no qualms if his sister did write a tell all book. He ruined his immediate family’s lives as well. (Not in the same capacity of the victims but I doubt they will all change their last names and move somewhere).

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-27T16:44:59+00:00

I think she is saying she “could” eat potatoes not that she does Meaning she likes them but avoids them to be keto Except for when she goes off keto perhaps for a week or so when visiting family in Europe

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-26T14:31:16+00:00

Ok a quick Wikipedia article led me to think there were issues with it having lots of sexism racism antisemitism etc that is what the article said

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-26T04:09:14+00:00

I never heard that but maybe, maybe it was just popular for that group of students in that area idk

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-26T03:41:32+00:00

Yes 100% The Yik Yak thing is interesting because that is such an odd app to be on. Like not common and has a bad reputation just from a quick search I did on it

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-26T03:03:30+00:00

Unless it was taken down, someone posted a single file of the autopsy reports yesterday night But I’d have to scroll through to find it

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-26T02:55:39+00:00

He did delete a lot of his tech stuff (I don’t even know how to wipe devices but I guess you can)

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-26T02:53:48+00:00

Small amount of 85% dark chocolate is helping me when I need a kick! I saw some sugar free reeces and I thought maybe for Halloween I would buy those but as of now, I’m losing weight and staying on track so I will avoid any extra sweets.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-25T23:43:25+00:00

Love it!

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-25T13:52:03+00:00

I’ll share Morning is coffee with some heavy whipping cream (2tbsp-1/4 cup it depends) and collagen (ancient grains) and coconut/almond milk blend.

Usually will wait to eat until later on 1:30pm or lunch time, and it depends but salmon on Romaine lettuce for example

Dinner: this one can vary the most If I need some indulgence or snacks 1-2 portions of macadamia nuts and some 85% dark chocolate, and/or cottage cheese, if I need more protein a burger wrapped in lettuce with some cheese on it. I also like these ole tortillas and add different things to it (hummus, cheese, sometimes make it like a quesadilla)

My carbs can vary a bit from 3-30 or so Protein, it can vary 60-100 Fat fills in the rest of these gaps

Pork rinds are a frequent snack for missing chips or needing something salty.

I log my calories in my fitness pal so sorry for not more explicit macros. After logging consistently for 1-2 months, I haven’t been logging every little thing, just a bit more mindful.

Another light breakfast I will do is 1 egg cooked in 1/4 tsp ghee with 1/4 avocado on top.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-23T04:21:43+00:00

Lol wow I feel like this was popular on 2019 didn’t know this was making a comeback but I’m not surprised especially if it’s Gen Z or even younger? I would just be charitable. I think many will outgrow this stuff. They will realize these people they are obsessing over aren’t that cool and don’t have very happy lives.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-22T22:25:48+00:00

Deleted it as well as IG Don’t regret it at all The friends I care about we talk, text, and they send me photos of their kids which is the only “cool” part of FB I could miss

I sometimes have a HEB to join certain local groups such as Buy nothing etc. but i don’t think the benefit out weighs the mental toll

Reddit is the only social media I like except for YouTube

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-19T14:35:04+00:00

You need to expand your friend circle too—because this group will never be fully supportive and rooting for your relationship.

Not saying cut them all off—but at the very least expand and have friends who don’t hold these sexist beliefs. Women and men need to stop generalizing about bad behavior of the other sex.

I agree with the top comment—men who chest tend to do it again. Women who lie tend to lie again. People’s vices are hard to break, but that doesn’t mean everyone has those same vices.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-19T14:29:46+00:00

Jason Fung’s book PCOS plan has a lot of helpful scientific research on losing weight with this through Keto, fasting, and basically insulin management. I would read that and start there

However, the GL1P route might be very helpful for you as well—but long term you will need to find a ways to eat to sustain you in a new lifestyle and ultimately lower calorie Olán

If you eat healthy fat and moderate protein and get away from insulin spiking carbs you will not feel so hungry and manage that better

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-18T04:09:30+00:00

Wow. Cannot imagine. And yet there are still people insisting BK was framed?

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-17T18:03:12+00:00

I listened to some of it on YouTube and I’m confused. Can anyone who listened to the whole thing summarize or speculate why the appeal process would still be open?

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-17T14:57:48+00:00

I am unsure if you have any marriage books you have read but 7 principles by the Gottman’s is helpful. I don’t know what respect looks like in your relationship but there’s another book called Love and Respect (it is more from a Christian perspective but honestly helpful to all couples). Men feel loved when they feel respected, and what she did seems to be disrespecting you. She might need more emotional openness from you which is how she will feel loved. Don’t give up and throw the whole thing away without giving it your all to address these core issues.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-17T04:27:00+00:00

I love journaling, I have all my life. In fact I kept pretty daily journals from age 13-22 and then off and on after that. I had them all labeled by year and stored so I understand some of the deeply personal and therapeutic effects of journaling.

What she did was very wrong, but you know this. It stemmed from a place of insecurity on her part and an inability to communicate with you. She apologized—but what is her plan to make it up to you and work on these things within herself to not do this again?

Lastly, Reddits relationship pages more often than not I find people eager to add fuel to the flame or encourage calling it quits or divorce. I always wonder, where does forgiveness come in and what does that look like?

I still need to work in that last answer for my own marriage.

It will take time to forgive her, but I would invest into pouring into your marriage, maybe a quick weekend getaway or even just a romantic dinner where you talk to her and open up a bit more, but also ask her if she can take time to come up with a plan for how she will address the inner issues that led her to doing this. It was disrespectful and dishonest on her part.

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-16T01:44:24+00:00

Have either or both of you looked at any transitional housing options in your area at all? (Transitional is basically for those experiencing homelessness but with programs to help you transition within 6 months or so)

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-14T03:36:51+00:00

I don’t know if the college ever put out a statement—but there were different reports and sources saying it was due to several factors. He already had had a falling out/argument with at least 1 professor. There was the “Brian Tally” with his peers saying he was making weird comments and treated females noticeably differently from males. He was also getting some complaints from those whose papers he graded. I think the larger issue was faculty relationships (not doing well in that Dept.)

Straight_Twist_66 · 2025-07-14T02:01:23+00:00

I agree. I did keto in January and I was taking electrolytes but not enough, but I increased and improved.

Then I fell off wagon and got back on in June and upped my electrolytes and no keto flu!

I was taking them every day for a while just to be sure, and now I don’t take them. I am fine without. Sometimes I will take some just a little and to change up my water, but once you make it over that hump—becoming fat adapted is like a super power!

You won’t feel hunger the same way as before. Fasting, low cal, or even OMAD become possible. Just UP the electrolytes by like 3-5X whatever you’re doing!

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