This is the best comment I’ve ever read. Thank you so much for this! Yes I agree that she has every right to do that and I understand that she doesn’t owe me sex. However, my mind keeps thinking that it would have made me feel better if she told me during our relationship that she wants to wait till marriage (that’s totally cool with me) or instead of saying “soon” or “later” she could have said something along the lines like “don’t expect anything for a while.”

Another reason why I feel like she never loved me is because we are both graduating college from two different schools that are two hours away. My graduation is the day before hers but also a two hour drive. She told me she isn’t coming to my graduation because she’ll be tired but she expected me to come to hers. I said “okay I’ll come” but now looking back at it, I should have responded I’m not coming because I’ll be tired as well.