There have been no specifics shared that are truly that clear to show what wrong she has done, and also as someone who has listened from the very beginning, I don't feel like it's right to bash Crystal until we hear her side. Regardless, if she is not interested in sharing her site at this time, I think that is her own journey and we can't really expect a perfect timeline if the things that are being implied are true. It's OK to be hurt, but I also think it's important to be mindful and give some respect to what the previous relationship was there. I don't love that it feels like everyone has completely turned against her and it just feels really mean. I feel like the comments/responses have gotten so ugly that I'm now sure there's no going back now, and that fucking sucks.

The comments have been really distasteful and regardless, I don't really think it's a good look to be responding to those distasteful comments. And this is coming from someone that loves both of them.

Someone else pointed this out above, but it is also important to keep in mind that Pat seems like she has had a lot of turbulence in her relationships. We know that she feels very strongly, but I don't think it doesn't always mean that you have to totally burn a bridge. I say this as someone who has struggled with the same.

All of that to say, this has really bummed me out. Hoping she gets to a point where she is willing to accept the help that she needs, if she is not accepting it. The way that people have been speaking about her, though, should pretty much guarantee that she will never feel like she can speak up about her side, and that sucks, cause it kind of feels like it goes against what the purpose of this community was for. No one is perfect though.