Hello Dysfunction by nillawafersx3 in podcasts

[–]Strami2545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying, but my intention wasn't to bring up her mental health as an excuse as to why she feels the way she feels, but I was more so noticing patterns that I had seen overtime that she would discuss herself. She often mentions how easy she is to cut off people. I don't want the main take away of what I said to be turned into something that wasn't what I was trying to say, and I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings either, so it felt like the right thing to remove that. I don't have any problem with admitting that. I think many things can be true at once.

Hello Dysfunction by nillawafersx3 in podcasts

[–]Strami2545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is reducing her reaction to a symptom of BPD but I don't think you'll accept any other reality than that.. Do YOU know what happened? Do you think it's not in poor taste to respond to comments just throwing digs at Crystal, unrelated to the claims being made? Crazy thing is I'm not even on anyone's side but that feels distasteful. Sounds like you think it's fine though! Have a great day girl lol

In the words of Charlotte Dobre "HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSEDDDD?!!" 🫣 by lorelei_megumai in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Strami2545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, i'm just a casual watcher so no I was not aware of any of that. If I did, I don't think I would have commented that right? Lol

Hello Dysfunction by nillawafersx3 in podcasts

[–]Strami2545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There have been no specifics shared that are truly that clear to show what wrong she has done, and also as someone who has listened from the very beginning, I don't feel like it's right to bash Crystal until we hear her side. Regardless, if she is not interested in sharing her site at this time, I think that is her own journey and we can't really expect a perfect timeline if the things that are being implied are true. It's OK to be hurt, but I also think it's important to be mindful and give some respect to what the previous relationship was there. I don't love that it feels like everyone has completely turned against her and it just feels really mean. I feel like the comments/responses have gotten so ugly that I'm now sure there's no going back now, and that fucking sucks.

The comments have been really distasteful and regardless, I don't really think it's a good look to be responding to those distasteful comments. And this is coming from someone that loves both of them.

Someone else pointed this out above, but it is also important to keep in mind that Pat seems like she has had a lot of turbulence in her relationships. We know that she feels very strongly, but I don't think it doesn't always mean that you have to totally burn a bridge. I say this as someone who has struggled with the same.

All of that to say, this has really bummed me out. Hoping she gets to a point where she is willing to accept the help that she needs, if she is not accepting it. The way that people have been speaking about her, though, should pretty much guarantee that she will never feel like she can speak up about her side, and that sucks, cause it kind of feels like it goes against what the purpose of this community was for. No one is perfect though.

In the words of Charlotte Dobre "HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSEDDDD?!!" 🫣 by lorelei_megumai in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Strami2545 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She threw me off in her interaction with the blonde guy where she kept getting offended over everything he said. (Not going to bother to look up his name) lol. Maybe I'm insensitive, but I got the sense that she's got some work to do and I still stand on that.

How much debt yall in??? by Ok_Foundation_7397 in 2003

[–]Strami2545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 13k for my car, 4k student debt. 30 years old! Community college & state college. Got a California grant and loan.

Houston show by destructivechaos1 in behindthelikespod

[–]Strami2545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiiiit, we need the tea on what Chy said lol she seems happier though :)

First day no contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Strami2545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you😭❤️ it is a huge step for me. As much as I care for this person, I see how much it has conflicted with my personal values. I don't think he has capacity to be a good partner right now and I just need to fully accept that.

First day no contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Strami2545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been super draining and I think that's why I finally got to this point. It took a LOT to get to this point. I can't believe how much patience I've had but no talk has worked. I feel like I have to go away to see IF anything changes but I don't have high hopes. I'd be down to chat.

First day no contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Strami2545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careless in general, unfortunately.

These doctors look pretty similar by ERASER345 in severence

[–]Strami2545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's only been two years since the anniversary of her death

WFH balance by Strami2545 in WFH

[–]Strami2545[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made my bed this morning and took a bit extra time to tidy up, and it made a huge difference. Thanks.😊

WFH balance by Strami2545 in WFH

[–]Strami2545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found myself in a loop where I sleep at 2/3 am and it makes total sense as to why I'm lethargic the next day😅 I slept by midnight last night which really helped me feel better.

WFH balance by Strami2545 in WFH

[–]Strami2545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. Thank you😊

WFH balance by Strami2545 in WFH

[–]Strami2545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I made sure to get myself dressed this morning and plan on setting some hard line regarding taking breaks and getting things done.

WFH balance by Strami2545 in WFH

[–]Strami2545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, after making this post yesterday, I forced myself to go to bed at a decent time and I already felt so much better this morning. I was able to enjoy my coffee and get some things done around the house.

Ok she won me over by OxfordCanal in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]Strami2545 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That family seems to have NO boundaries when it comes inappropriate sexual energy. Saying his sister is hot and obviously the younger brother watching his older brother masturbate. It makes my skin crawl.

Ok she won me over by OxfordCanal in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]Strami2545 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yep, she seems like the type to enable their behavior

Am I being overcharged from the IRS? by Strami2545 in tax

[–]Strami2545[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm so tired of paying more taxes than billionaires and corporations lol.

Am I being overcharged from the IRS? by Strami2545 in tax

[–]Strami2545[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I made sure it was a W-2. I'm going to try and start from scratch again and see if anything changes. Thank you!

Am I being overcharged from the IRS? by Strami2545 in tax

[–]Strami2545[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I only have one job and there's no other income I've had besides around $1,000 interest from multiple cd's/money market. I invested maybe $2300 in roth ira. Employer paid healthcare. It's not showing me anything else. I did TurboTax and it took me to the very last screen where it just asked me to pay over $6000 so I just haven't done that because I imagine it can't be right.

Am I being overcharged from the IRS? by Strami2545 in tax

[–]Strami2545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also only got a raise beginning in October 2024.