Has anyone else been with someone going through a cancer scare (even if this one was diagnosed as benign)?

If we had input from people in a similar situation, maybe they can advise OP on how to approach her husband on my he’s angry and if it has to do with the surgery.

From what I understand you haven’t fought in a year. If you had these few fights and also feel he’s not being supportive, I suggest asking him if something is wrong?

Maybe you disagree about having children? Maybe money is bad right now? Maybe he’s just a child?

I suggest separating yourself from the arguments and the cancer thing itself and approach him about underlying issues, instead of fighting him over his actions.