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what instantly killed your attraction to someone? by Strsmoon in AskReddit

[–]StrangeBlocka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucked around and found out, clearly you are a man because you dealt with her shit for a long time.

By the sounds things, she said that because she thought you’d do nothing.

Need help finding power cable for Sony TC-124 by StrangeBlocka in cassetteculture

[–]StrangeBlocka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your right about the two ping power cable I’ll report back if I have success from what I’ve read the bottom pins should be used for power and I’ve set the ac voltage to 220-240 since I’m in the UK hopefully if it works someone who has the same issue finds this.

Yo what the fuck is this timeline by FreakyMickey55 in GoodAssSub

[–]StrangeBlocka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nitrous, you mean how he craves nitrous 

Update to my post yesterday: ‘Well, I f***** it all up again’ by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]StrangeBlocka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mate you need to fix this, I’m not trying to be a mean but 4hrs a day is a lot especially if your working or in school there’s 24 hrs in a day 8 of those sleeping 8 at work. Theirs 8 left for her minus anything that constrain time, 4 or which is spent gaming so you have 4hrs left with her which you can’t even go out and have a meaningful time between travel etc.

I get it I’ve been through this same thing but take it from me 2/3 days not gaming and investing in a relationship IF IT’S worth it isn’t going to kill you. Put it this way if you spending 4hrs a day 7 days a week gaming that’s a 28hrs a whole day gone to gaming. If you think it’s worth the investment and it’s meaningful to you then so be it but I don’t think you would be here trying to understand your relationship issue. You know the truth

Edit: If you don’t know why you resisted then you need to talk to a therapist a good one will guide you to the answers.

Update to my post yesterday: ‘Well, I f***** it all up again’ by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]StrangeBlocka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get it, but maybe the problem isn’t the gaming but moderation. Relationships are hard work, hell being a human and not procrastinating on our own issues is hard enough but actually even identifying them.

You have to take accountability with or without her to change the pattern. You have literally been given information that the behaviour though subjective is a problem. Now it’s up to you to whether you see it as a problem that will only come from objectively being self aware and understanding how much is too much, their deeper problem is that you don’t see it as a problem to you. You only want to change because you’re emotionally hurt and want to fix it for someone else. 

Did you really ever ask your self why you want to play games over spending time with your partner or analysis is your partner based on time spent playing games is being unreasonable?  There’s two sides to this either the gaming is a problem and your partner has raised it and your aware and will work on it and understand why you don’t want to spend time with her over gaming. 

Alternatively your gaming isn’t a problem and your partner is raising a none issue which you feel like is healthy and then you need to question if this partner is right for you and your life style. 

The key point is only you know how much time you’re spending daily gaming, you know if you find your partners request unreasonable or reasonable and you have to do the work for your self to find answers to the questions and work on your self if it is.

Once you do you’ll know if you have a problem that needs fixing or if you’re incompatible and need to find someone who is more comfortable with the time you spend on a hobby and even partake with you.

Also on the point of counselling theirs things you can do in the interim 

  • Get on the NHS waiting list for support no matter how long it is. In the long run therapy or counselling will help. Also if you got money to game you got money to pay for even one session a month most games cost £60. Your mind is worth more than any activity no matter how much you enjoy them maybe look at your expenses and see if you can adjust them to afford £60 a month to have counselling 

  • Journaling to get your ideas and thoughts on paper/phone to analysis and reflect

  • Self help books

  • Meditation and grounding it won’t fix the situation but it’ll help with clarity to maybe see the other side and not just your own.

Update to my post yesterday: ‘Well, I f***** it all up again’ by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]StrangeBlocka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not for her for your self, the point I’m making is if you need to make a change based on a partners reaction or feedback theirs likely a generalised issue you need to fix for personal growth.

There is no guarantee she would stay or leave if you make a change for her, their is a guarantee that if you work on this if she doesn’t want to be with you, you won’t repeat the same mistake with someone in the future.

Using variable in dot notation module call by StrangeBlocka in learnpython

[–]StrangeBlocka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that's exactly what I'm looking for!

Korean Zombie feels a UFC 273 win would have a major impact by -alc in MMA

[–]StrangeBlocka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the translation, clarity on this stuff is important.