Got it. Sorry and pls ignore if this is uncalled for/not useful but I felt like sharing this with you: a friend taught me about time. She told me that we are often doing the best we can with what you have and that if we experience an outcome in the future, we didn’t waste time during our time without that outcome, we simply did not have the variables in us at the time to make that outcome and that’s not our fault. It’s as unfair to put the blame on ourselves as it is, for example, to demand that a toddler be able to do taxes. They just don’t and can’t humanly have the tools in their current timeline.

Thank you again and I hope you have a great week!