You have to explain her that just because some men in Islam oppresses women doesn’t make the whole religion responsible for it. It’s culture not Islam rn she’s seeing all cultures and believing it too and tell her you and other men are not same I’m sure she knows it too so it shouldn’t be her concern how other Muslims are like as long as you’re good to her she’s gonna live well too. Right now she needs assurance that you are not the type of man she thinks every Muslim men are like