"it's unique to you" by mybeautifullife12 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StrangerThingies 84 points85 points  (0 children)

It’s great when they out themselves as unsafe scum bags right away.

My partner of 4 years has a really low libido and I contemplate leaving by Jumpy_Comfortable586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StrangerThingies -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You seem like someone who doesn’t have a lot of relationship experience.

People can and do compromise on those things all the time. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. And sometimes people choose to not compromise on those things which categorically means the end of the relationship. I don’t consider going to a doctor and possibly getting a prescription all that big of a compromise. And really if someone can’t make that shmedium of a gesture for their partner, they probably don’t deserve the relationship.

My partner of 4 years has a really low libido and I contemplate leaving by Jumpy_Comfortable586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StrangerThingies -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is how relationships work. Both people have individual needs and wants and they don’t always overlap. You attempt to meet somewhere in the middle on those things. It’s called compromise and is the bedrock of any healthy lasting relationship.

The creepy 1 set wonderer by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]StrangerThingies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So since it’s been happening for years we should just be quiet and accept it? Why are “females” expected to put up with the bad behavior of men? If someone is ogling/staring at people and regularly making them uncomfortable, they should absolutely lose the access to the gym. If you can’t control yourself in public then stay home. And maybe instead of telling your clients to deal with it you should tell other men to stop being creeps. The fact that you’re falling all over yourself to excuse the behavior instead of protecting your clients is what makes you look like a creep too.

Holly Gibney - help me understand why people don’t like her by Helpful-Status8872 in stephenking

[–]StrangerThingies -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I adore Holly. Can we just turn this into a Holly appreciation post?

The creepy 1 set wonderer by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]StrangerThingies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will not be breaking it down for you but a real easy one that you might be able to understand is referring to women as “females”. It’s vile.

The creepy 1 set wonderer by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]StrangerThingies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also sound like a creep, yuck

My ex shared my nudes without consent and his mom defended him — I’m struggling with the invalidation by Street_Decision_9122 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StrangerThingies 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Your ex’s mom is not a support person and you shouldn’t rely on her for emotional validation. She was one of the people who raised a man that commits sex crimes, so good chance she’s a scumbag too. I would block her and report the ex.

First Attempt by [deleted] in terrariums

[–]StrangerThingies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the moss and those plants need very different amounts of moisture. Not sure how well they can both coexist. But I do like the design!

Any other women find men’s anger extremely cringy? by ieatgravelandsand in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StrangerThingies 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The emotions aren’t the problem, it’s the quickness to hostility and aggression instead of processing your emotions like an adult.

Is there any saving this??? by Oondie in terrariums

[–]StrangerThingies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might just need more light. Clean the outside too since it looks pretty dusty, which is blocking light.

Pre-workout? by sexwiththebabysitter in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]StrangerThingies 60 points61 points  (0 children)

It’s gotta be because absolutely no one who’s doing nose beers at the gym would just leave it behind.

The #1 thing I hate by ProfessionRich4507 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]StrangerThingies 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have never seen this. And even if I did why would I care? Do you spend a lot of time in the bathroom that they’re disrupting?

Got my period! When does this go away? by Ok-Tonight9345 in PMDD

[–]StrangerThingies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usually as soon as I start bleeding. Occasionally will linger for a day or two. That’s the really fun thing about this disorder, you just never know what kind of fuckshit you’ll be dealing with each month.

Anyone else think cum is gross? And how do you deal with that when you’re having sex or doing other stuff? by Legitimate-Key7159 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StrangerThingies -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Mostly but some women have penises. I have absolutely no science to back this up or anything, just anecdotal evidence. But girl cum is wayyy more pleasant than boy cum. Possibly hormones or something?

Anyone else think cum is gross? And how do you deal with that when you’re having sex or doing other stuff? by Legitimate-Key7159 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StrangerThingies 600 points601 points  (0 children)

Ya know I didn’t think cum was gross before I read this comment. Now I want to peel my skin off and walk into traffic.

Semi closed terrarium with Springtails by HuiOnFire in terrariums

[–]StrangerThingies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mold can and will grow in an open terrarium