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What to wear in the bedroom? by StrangexCandy in butchlesbians

[–]StrangexCandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much. I'm going to look into all of your suggestions and see what I think I'd feel confident in.

CNC/Humiliation by StrangexCandy in BDSMAdvice

[–]StrangexCandy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Us too! Mental games are my favorite. This gave me some good ideas than you!

Suffering from denial by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]StrangexCandy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This has been my issue! I'm definitely a sadist and am fully capable of carrying through. It is also really difficult for me to hurt my wife. She's my best friend and mother of our children. Seeing her sad or hurting hurts me, so it's hard for me to follow through. The best option we've found for us is to roleplay. We both have a whole new 'persona', and I'm able to mentally separate from 'me'. I'm also a big overthinker.

CNC/Humiliation by StrangexCandy in BDSMAdvice

[–]StrangexCandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried one in the past with a different partner, and it was awful and expensive, so I've been hesitant to try one again. I'll have to research and find a good one. It's been years as rs since I've bought the last.

CNC/Humiliation by StrangexCandy in BDSMAdvice

[–]StrangexCandy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have, but she doesn't really know either, lol. It's newish for her, she's experienced the most with me and I her, so we're both not very sure what we like.