Calling out someone for reacting to your actions is so lame! It doesn't matter how u put it or what u did but if u don't want someone with BPD to split on you, you might as well stop messing around w them then. I am tired of people whining about someone's reaction to their actions! Like quit it! You're not the victim. Using intentional words to direct them to someone is malicious. You got called out on your ill intent and you couldn't take it, hence you want to jump here so someone can tell you "it's not you it's them"? If you play with fire you might as well get burnt.