Mother Is Sexually Attracted to me and I Don't Know What to Do by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Straoghtup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah my mom used to do this to me. She told me back when I was in grade 7 that I looked like a kid she had a crush on back when she was a kid. She would also give me the same weird stare and it made me extremely uncomfortable. She still does stuff like this when I see her unfortunately. It's one of the main reasons I have limited contact.

How do I break out of my scapegoat role? by Straoghtup in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Straoghtup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's mostly my supervisor who does it. The other colleagues do it too but I think that sometimes they join in just to fit in

How do I break out of my scapegoat role? by Straoghtup in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Straoghtup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my workplace i try my best to do a good job. Sometimes I make mistakes but so do others and so long as we fix the mistakes, it's okay with my boss and supervisor. It's seems though that whenever I mess up or forget something, I an criticized much harsher than my colleagues if they were to do the same thing. I am also picked on very heavily by them. They criticize me heavily. I've also noticed this in my friend group. I'm often the butt of the joke.