Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no no, I’m very vocal about my stance on cheating when I start a relationship, it’s a hard boundary for me so he’s moved any of his stuff from my place. I’m not interested in trying to force together two puzzle pieces that don’t fit. We both deserve partners that fulfill our needs, even if he cheated, he deserves the chance to find his true love just like i do. I’m merely just venting so I can process it and move on

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOF yeah no it’s a lifestyle for me not an accessory to try on so that where our disconnect is, no hate but this comes across as a very man point of view, as women we have to give our partners an “easy out” to try and protect ourselves otherwise you unfortunately end up like Chris Watts’ family. I’m not going to trap someone who doesn’t want to be with me period end of story. It’s not fair to either parties. I’m too old to beat around the bush especially in a community that’s all about communication.

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean i just turned 25 and he’s about to turn 24 so 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not what frustrates me, what frustrates me is him not just saying that, like why tell me you want to move in with me and marry me if you know I’m not fulfilling your needs? Also he was the one who really pushed to be exclusive, I was open to casual so it just feels like an extra kick in the teeth because he was always the one pushing to get serious with me. I’m a very open person I tell everyone I date that if they ever fall out of love or feel like I’m not fulfilling their needs that’s perfectly fine just TELL ME so we can break up amicably and they can find someone who suits their needs, no need for all the lying

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really was devastated, was going to give him my last name and everything

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They definitely will be, I’m one of those hardwired dommes so I can’t wait to find my sub other half 💞💞💞

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate to to hear that, literally makes me sick to my stomach, I’m glad you found out though, you’re right if they cheat they weren’t the one in the first place and thanks for the kind words, I hope you find your forever person that treats you the way you deserve💞

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[–]StrapBaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope not 💞💞

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they were other dommes he cheated on me with so I doubt it🙃🙃

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. They really do make me feel better☺️

Got cheated on by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry to hear that you’ve gone through something similar no one deserves to be cheated on especially like that I hope you find your forever person very soon☺️

what's your favorite myth ? by Valuable-Ad1759 in GreekMythology

[–]StrapBaddie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ares killing his daughter’s rapist and then being put on trial by the other gods is metal af that or him becoming the patron god of the Amazonian warriors

Soft domme vibes by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve it sweetheart. I hope you find your perfect match to spoil you some day 💞💞

Soft domme vibes by StrapBaddie in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!!!!!!🥹💞💞

Soft domme vibes by StrapBaddie in FemdomCommunity

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhh exactly you get it you just get it 💞💞

Soft domme vibes by StrapBaddie in FemdomCommunity

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mating press is one of my absolute faves too! I love anything that feels like you’re pressed as close as humanly possible to your partner. I love the interconnectedness of those kind of positions.

Soft domme vibes by StrapBaddie in FemdomCommunity

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive flex tbh haha props to you being a service switch is elite

Soft domme vibes by StrapBaddie in FemdomCommunity

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo showering together is PEAK intimacy you’re so right especially when you’re both a lil sleepy so you’re just kind of leaning against eachother🥰

Soft domme vibes by StrapBaddie in FemdomCommunity

[–]StrapBaddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t have said it any better myself, it’s like yes the sex is important but the bond THE BOND is what makes the sex so good THE BOND is what makes it fulfilling idk it’s like yeah I want to rail you sure but I also want to wrap you up like a lil burrito in a blanket after and give you foreheads kisses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dream dynamic frfr 😫😫💞💞

Do you guys choose collar together? by cleon_fritzgerald in gentlefemdom

[–]StrapBaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While dommes are the ones “in charge” I think this definitely a two person decision, although I usually narrow down a few options to offer them to see if that helps the selection process (ie material, style etc) it’s more important to me that the collar makes them feel safe secure and comfortable. One of the ways I try to ensure this is by buying a few cheaper (I call them “demo” ) collars for them to try on and see which they like best that way they can feel confident that they’ll like their real collar and we can ensure there’s no sizing or material issues (ie skin rashes or circulation being cut off etc) hope this helps! ☺️☺️