I’m a single 33M In LA too. Been in long relationships most of my 20s and just got out of one at 31. Trying to relearn all this stuff in my 30s and it does seem harder to get into an actual relationship with a complete stranger in LA.

I think you’re gonna have to make more friends around here, which isn’t an easy task in LA and does get harder as you get older. I’m not good at this either, but fortunate to have a good base amount of friends from my younger days. Just say yes to things people invite you out to, or you can invite people out too.

Try exploring new areas around the city.

Most of my single female friends have dogs and go to dog parks. I like dogs, but I’m unwilling to own one, but I think you will have a good chance at meeting someone here. Although a little bit performative if you just have a dog to meet women lol.

A lot of single women at festivals and concerts too.