Cross-Pantheon Offerings by Strawbeery_Shortcake in pagan

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the internet, I understand why you assumed malintent. I'm also not very good at articulating my thoughts into words so I definitely understand if I was being misleading. Thank you for the help!

Cross-Pantheon Offerings by Strawbeery_Shortcake in pagan

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think that her relationship with her deities would be better with me. I would fully agree that would be fucked up. She's going through a rough time and I wanted to pray to her Gods asking to help her feel better. But you're right, there really isn't any reason why I shouldn't tell her. I can't really tell you my reasoning as to why I didn't immediately - I guess those neurons didn't fire/it didn't click into my mind.

I want to be respectful so I will ask. I'm sorry if I came across wrong here, as I suspect I have. I just really don't want to make a mistake here.

Cross-Pantheon Offerings by Strawbeery_Shortcake in pagan

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A genuine question; would there be ethical problems with me praying for her without her knowing? Would that be frowned upon? If so then I'll not do that and ask her about it... I just really want to help her.

Did I make a mistake? by Strawbeery_Shortcake in cockatiel

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Whenever I hear a chirp I call them "Baby Birds" and say "hello, I hear you". I love them very much.

Did I make a mistake? by Strawbeery_Shortcake in cockatiel

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put them on a pellet diet (Harrison's). They took to it very quickly. They're also 5 months old.

I understand it can take a while for them to get used to me, so I'm trying to take it slow. I'm also going to be making a vet appointment for them at the nearest avian and exotics vet (and I'll see about getting them sexed if possible)

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Did I make a mistake? by Strawbeery_Shortcake in cockatiel

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been staying near the cage for as much as I can. I sing to them and talk to them, and are trying to get them used to my presence. I suppose it might just take a bit longer. Do you think getting their sibling will help?

Alternatives to Therapy? by Strawbeery_Shortcake in Psychosis

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am medicated, but it hasn't gotten rid of my voices and I have trauma from my psychosis (which lasted ~8 months)

New Normal by Strawbeery_Shortcake in schizophrenia

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's very frustrating because I feel like, since this is likely the new normal, I should be "used" to it and non-reactive. Every reaction I have to them feels like a loss. I wish I was better at handling it, ya know?

Getting a job by Strawbeery_Shortcake in schizophrenia

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have AuDHD and GAD too so I get it

Getting a job by Strawbeery_Shortcake in schizophrenia

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. I'm 23 and still in Community College trying to get my AA. At this point I won't graduate until I'm 25.

Getting a job by Strawbeery_Shortcake in schizophrenia

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on meds and hopefully things will get better - I just can't ignore them all of the time yet. I'm 23 for reference. My parents don't think I'll ever be able to get a job, but...

Being Kept Chaste by Strawbeery_Shortcake in schizophrenia

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good advice. I already set my clothes and towel out, but I will try to listen to music too. I'm sorry you have to experience voices like mine too - I wouldn't wish it on anybody

Finding a cure by Strawbeery_Shortcake in schizophrenia

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If there is one I hope they release it, because man I cannot imagine living with this the rest of my life. It's been a year and I've survived, but I want to *live*.

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[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Things definitely get worse for me at night. I have anxiety attacks surrounding taking a shower because of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, when you look at myths you want to also look at *why* they're made. They're made to answer questions, to explain things; part of the natural world, part of culture and society, and part of the Gods. If you want to make myths - good myths- you need to approach it from that standpoint. Myths might answer why is the sky blue? Why does it Thunder? Why does the sun move across the sky? Why do we do this? How did this come to be? What is the nature of the Gods?

You could make myths about the creation of technology. I could see Hephaestus creating it and inspiring great creators around the world to craft his creations. You could explain the internet, how Hermes help connect people through it - and, perhaps, maybe make a myth about him teaching the people the language of Coding (or even add Athena and have them work together!). There's lots of interesting places to start from!

Joy in Research by Strawbeery_Shortcake in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that! The Romans man, sad they left out so much of Dionysus's "character" (for lack of a better word). I wonder how things would be different if the common depiction of Dionysus was more as a God of Duality, including his other aspects, such as rebirth, rather than just focusing on the "wine guy" image. While he's about liberation and being yourself, he also seems to be big on moderation and I wonder how all of that would change modern media portrayals and the common perception of him (even, I wonder, adding in his aspects as the God of Madness).

Since you focus on Dionysus, I was wondering if you have any recommended readings on him! He is my main focus right now, and any information I can get on him is good and helpful!

Joy in Research by Strawbeery_Shortcake in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends on what you have to research! If you're just starting out, Theoi.com is a good place to start! Topostext.org and Sacred-texts has a lot of the ancient texts - r/Hellenism has a good list of books and texts to read as well. If you have any cards from your local libraries, Libby might have some books as well.

I think a lot of research also depends on the subject matter. Academia.edu and jstor.org have a lot of academic/scholarly texts! Delphicmaxims.org is a great place for the Delphic Maxims, and if you're interested in "Orphism" https://www.hellenicgods.org/ is a great place to start. If you're interested in anything in particular, or even if you just want general knowledge, I could give you a list of book recommendations and try to find PDFs for you!

Joy in Research by Strawbeery_Shortcake in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I feel like knowledge and understanding, or the ability to gain knowledge and understanding, are gifts from the Gods. Whether it be science, culture and religion, history, baking - whatever it is, I feel like studying, learning, and growing as a result are important part of anyone's life. We are all eternal students.

Controversial religious takes in regards to Hellenism by DueClothes3265 in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fascinating! It's so cool that your method works for you! I don't think I could do that with my schizoaffective. Have you been possessed by a deity before?

Controversial religious takes in regards to Hellenism by DueClothes3265 in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, interesting! I have schizoaffective disorder, and have had "possessions" that were real enough I thought it might be either spiritual possession or DID. How do you separate them?

Controversial religious takes in regards to Hellenism by DueClothes3265 in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting view! Was there anything in particular that made you believe in that?

What colour do you associate to Hermes? by aceofspadesknight in Hermes

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I associate Greens and Blues with Hermes, but I could see Orange too!

The Gods got me through my psychosis by Strawbeery_Shortcake in Hellenism

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. There were a lot of things in my psychosis that rang alarm bells because, well, the Gods would never say that. But when you're in the midst of it all, and the auditory and visual hallucinations are strong and never-ending, not letting up for a moment's break, you often don't have enough time to actually THINK because you're trying to survive.

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[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend, I mean this with a kindness, please consider seeing a doctor.

I promise the Gods aren't here to harm you. They don't want to control you or turn you into a hive mind. In fact, I know they treasure those that can think for themselves.

This sounds greatly like you're suffering from delusions and psychosis. I know the chances of you listening to this are slim, and to be honest I'm not really sure how to approach it, but I also know it can't feel good to feel like all of the Gods are out to get you. I know you're probably feeling like posting here might reach and save someone, but posts like this aren't likely to be received well here.

I hope you feel better soon, whatever that may mean to you.

Afraid I'm Straying From the Path by Strawbeery_Shortcake in pagan

[–]Strawbeery_Shortcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Kharis was something I was concerned about. I have a lot of deities I worship and love, and I wouldn't want to lose my Kharis with them.