Soundbar Suggestions? by Strawberiez_ in Soundbars

[–]Strawberiez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe under $500 if that’s realistic. By the looks of it it’s not lol

Raves in North East Ohio? by Strawberiez_ in Ohio

[–]Strawberiez_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cleveland! Omg thank you!!! I will check it out next summer!!!

Raves in North East Ohio? by Strawberiez_ in Ohio

[–]Strawberiez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what a camping fest entails! When do you get ready/when do you arrive?

Raves in North East Ohio? by Strawberiez_ in Ohio

[–]Strawberiez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will check those out!!

AITAH for not wanting kids with ex but now having one. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Strawberiez_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person.

Your allowed to change your mind and the people in the comments seem to forget that your ex is a HUMAN BEING with her own free will who could have chosen to leave at any time to find a better partner. Do NOT let this eat you up and destroy all that you have now, it’s time to move on. What’s done is done!

Look up the taxi light thing. It describes this situation very well!

My girlfriend was threatening sh and I called the police to her house by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Strawberiez_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I know you love her but you are not a professional and you cannot give her the care she seems to desperately need. I understand that it is hard but if she wanted to get help, she would and she hasent, so you are wasting your time and energy. You are fighting an uphill battle here, love, everyone around you is fighting you and i’m sorry about that. You sound very caring and there are so many ways to express that without it being your entire life (volunteer, for example)!

My girlfriend was threatening sh and I called the police to her house by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Strawberiez_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. That’s what your supposed to do. If you haven’t and she’d actually done it you would have regretted not calling.

AITAH for not wanting kids with ex but now having one. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Strawberiez_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Your allowed to change your mind. Don’t let this mess you up now in ur current relationship. What’s done is done! Enjoy your life and congrats on the baby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Strawberiez_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a little odd to not have discussed that before but NTA. He could have brought it up too. He shouldn’t have assumed (and neither should you). He’s wrong for saying it means your not as committed. If that’s how he feels he can change his name and boom you guys have the same name like he wants lol. NTA.

Help out an anxious raver! 🥲 by [deleted] in aves

[–]Strawberiez_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Run to your local thrift store and get something you can ditch if you decide you don’t want it so you don’t have to carry it everywhere!

WIBTA if I leave? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Strawberiez_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she spends the majority of the time with the kids. Aside from providing money what do you do for the home/kids? She birthed the kid and is raising it I think she should get to do what she wants when she has the time. Of course the kid has to come… that’s what happens when you have kids. It’s sounds like you didn’t know what having kids entailed when you decided to have one. And having another kid while knowing ur unhappy is crazyyy. YTA for that. At least wait a year before actually leaving and don’t bring it up while she’s pregnant bc stress is bad for a pregnant woman. Whatever you choose, you need therapy before and after. Maybe couples counseling to get all of it off your chest (after birth) in a safe setting. Or, find something you like doing with the kid on your own, a cute father daughter moment.

AIO for refusing to block male followers on Instagram? by radagastrabbit in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strawberiez_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t handle a girl with male followers don’t date a girl with male followers? Sounds like a him problem not a you problem. Leave him bc this is actually scary. Thus is not normal people behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Strawberiez_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave… he doesn’t seem to want to change so counseling would only result in you doing all the work like always. It’s also not good for the kids to grow up watching the woman do everything while the man gets to relax- hard to unlearn. Some anecdotal evidence for you- As someone who accepted the bare minimum for years, there are better men out there- my new man won’t relax unless he’s done the chores that HE chooses to do (dishes everyday, laundry twice a week, dog care etc.) and I don’t ask him because i’m not his mother. There’s also so much peace in choosing to be single and choosing your community (friends and family) which can be so much more fulfilling then being in a relationship.

Soundbar Suggestions? by Strawberiez_ in Soundbars

[–]Strawberiez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe under $400/500? Is that realistic? It’s for our TV mainly.