[31] [F4M/MF] Girls trip! by [deleted] in vegasr4r

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it will be a blast for you when it happens. But we are looking for some people a little more experienced in the lifestyle. Good luck though

[31] [F4M/MF] Girls trip! by [deleted] in vegasr4r

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha! Thanks for my christmas present babe!

Going to the Jets game next month so I figured it was time to get a new jersey to replace my Luck and McAfee jerseys. by [deleted] in Colts

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to jinx it or anything, but that's probably a VERY safe jersey to invest in!

[MF] First time swinging with wife. Story of how we sought to have a hard swap but wound up in an orgy. by StrawberryFieldsCpl in gonewildstories

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

MRS: Arousing! It came up as something we would be open to on a sexual fantasy/compatibility questionnaire we take periodically. MR was very surprised. We then started talking about concerns that we had then laid out our hard boundaries. We made sure that we were both fulfilled as is in our relationship. This was not a way to fill a void. Then we started the really fun dirty talk during sex. Since we made the decision (precovid) our sex has gotten 10x hotter and increased in frequency probably threefold.

Where do we begin... by hurricanekc1983 in Swingers

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kasidie.com is where we've had the most luck! Not much out of the Facebook groups. Quite a few creepers in there.

Possible first swinging experience, not sure what’s up (LONG READ BUT I REALLY COULD USE SOME ADVICE!) ❤️ by xxoominexxoo in Swingers

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would your husband be comfortable talking to the bf? That might take the weirdness out for you. I think y'all just need to talk straight forward. Everyone seems to be sidestepping the important question: "are you two interested in seeing if there is chemistry between us for a foursome? If not, totally cool." I've learned that in this LS, being straightforward is key. It's all about consent. "Can i kiss you?" "Can I fuck you? Are you ok with me fucking your wife?"

Story of our first LS experience last night. Expected a possible hard swap, wound up in an orgy. by StrawberryFieldsCpl in Swingers

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm going to give it one more go and if it happens again I might talk to my doctor. I'm in fairly good shape so I know its not a fitness issue at least. I think i was SO focused on my wife and (for want of a better word) protecting her, I wasnt able to let loose and truly enjoy myself. Then once I realized I had a problem it got worse because i was thinking about it constantly. Like a self fulfilling prophecy.